Finding your YOU that leads to TWO
Our letter this week comes from Danni, who wrote to me asking what she should do about her new guy. She hasn't heard from him in 3 days and doesn't know what to do.
Hi Jane,
We were good, and then I noticed him not saying I miss you suddenly, and now its been three days since I've heard from him.
What do I do?
Do I test his love and not reach out to him and risk losing him forever?
Help!
- DanniContinue Reading
Beautiful Sami writes to tell us her story of being ghosted by her relatively new long-distance boyfriend, and she's wondering what could have happened.
Hi Jane,
I started seeing a guy who lives in a different state than me a few months ago. I've seen him three times in person, and those three times we were with each other almost non stop for days.
He even came to visit me one weekend and again, we were with each other the entire time. It was amazing.
When we weren't together, we would text constantly, every single day. He was usually the one who started the conversations, but I would start them occasionally, attempting to let him know that I was just as interested in talking to him as he was interested in talking to me.Continue Reading
This week, we’re hearing from one of our beautiful readers who's asked to remain anonymous. I'll call her Traci - she's reaching out for some help to see what she knows is true.
Hi Jane,
I read a similar story on your website - I think I need someone to help me decide!
I have been talking to this guy since early Feb of this year, we have been planning to meet up, on one occasion he had to cancel and on two occasions I have cancelled.
We text everyday and it's lovely to speak to someone. We have arranged a date and both talking about how we're really excited to see each other!
Then suddenly, he goes quiet - no reason or explanation. Now, I never hear from him unless I message and sometime he will talk for a bit and then go quiet.Continue Reading
Beautiful Jude writes about the situation she's in, wondering why he hasn't called when he said he would, and I know so many of us can relate to this one!
He said he'd call yesterday, but didn't. Why does this make me feel so needy?
Why don't I just contact him? It's been going well so far.
So afraid of being vulnerable and of finding out he's not as committed as I hoped. And that I'll then put up with it...
How do I approach this without sounding like a lunatic and without compromising myself? Is it OK to say "I was expecting to hear from you; is all OK?"
Then how do I trust his answer... Oh dear!Continue Reading
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