Getting a guy, attracting a guy, finding someone to love you has never been your problem.
Getting a guy who isn’t capable of seeing you, attracting someone who you actually want instead of the ones who mirror your own interpretations of what’s wrong with you and treat you accordingly, recognizing what it is you want in someone who loves you - these are the problem!
You want the guy who isn’t capable of seeing you to see you.
You want the guy who reminds you of someone else in your life who didn’t deserve your kind of love either.
And you’re basing love on such a short-sighted view of what it means to be loved that you’re missing the entire point of being in love with someone.
Love isn’t just a feeling.
Or if it is, and if that’s what love means to you, then accept that and go find someone who you can have that feeling with, without anything else. Just a feeling.Continue Reading