Finding your YOU that leads to TWO
I’m hearing you tonight.
Another disappointment. One more loss. More hopes dashed. And it feels like nothing has changed, and never will.
Where do you go from here?
How do you get back hope when summoning up any kind of hope at all was already too much to ask?Continue Reading
How do the years go by so fast?
This week is my 16th wedding anniversary – I can hardly believe it’s been that long.
But then again, I can.
Because what I’ve learned in that time has taught me so much more about marriage than I ever could have known back then.
It’s why I’m more passionate than I've ever been about doing everything I can to help you understand the one thing no one ever told me years and years ago.
Back when I was more concerned about NEVER finding someone, than I was about what it actually means to walk through life on a day to day basis with someone who (no matter how perfect he may be for you) is still very human.
I always thought if you married the right guy for you, everything would work itself out.Continue Reading
This week I'm featuring a letter - along with my response - from gorgeous Maddie, who's wondering if the man she's been seeing is actually interested in a committed relationship or if he's just playing with her heart.
Hi Jane,
I have a question for you.
Some background information: I have known this guy for 6 years (we briefly dated 6 years ago and have remained in contact on and off in this time, both as friends and sometimes a bit flirty).
Over the last 5-ish months we have gotten quite close again.
He had a girlfriend so we never spoke or did anything sexual. He spoke to me about some of their issues and I gave advice as best I could.
They broke up around 6 weeks ago and since then he and I have spent time together and gotten a lot closer.Continue Reading
If you don’t get to the root, nothing changes. If you don’t find your “why”, you can’t know where to look.
And if you don’t like where you are today, change it.
How? Find your why.
Why do you keep falling for the same type of man? Why is this man so attractive to you? Why him, and not someone else?
And more specifically, why do you believe so strongly that you NEED him? What is it about him that has you putting up with things you said you’d never EVER put up with before there was him?
Most of the women I work with discover right away that almost every single one of these questions has a common denominator – and it’s not her we’re talking about here. It’s a specific man.
Namely, the man known as her dad.Continue Reading
We talk a lot on here about the man who comes on strong. The knight in shining armor type of guy who comes in and sweeps us off our feet before we even realize what’s happening.
We may not even notice him at first, because it’s not only about his looks or his physical attributes.
No, this one takes us completely by surprise because, overwhelmingly, most of the time we don’t even see it coming.
We’re a little aloof at first, cautious even. After all, we’ve been warned about this type of guy. The type who jumps in too fast, who wants to take everything to the next level faster than the relationship calls for, the one who simply can’t seem to get enough of you.Continue Reading
Our letter this week comes all the way from Hong Kong, where beautiful Laura wants to know what she should do about a guy she met 4 months ago on Tinder, who lives on the West Coast.
Hi Jane,
I met this guy on Tinder 4 months ago, and after talking to each other for 1 month, he asked me out. To give you some background information, he lives in SF while I live in Hong Kong, but he works between Hong Kong and SF.
We had sex on the first date.
I know this is not good, but he said he didn't plan it and said he will see me again. So after one week working in China (we text each other every day), he came back to Hong Kong for one day and he did ask me out, said he wants to see me. Its a dinner date.Continue Reading
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