Finding your YOU that leads to TWO
If any of these sound familiar, it's time to re-think your situation.
We've all been there – in that relationship that your friends, family, coworkers, even that cashier at the grocery store have been wondering why you’re still in.
Sure, it started out great, with all of the thrill and fireworks of new and exciting love.
He chased you, won your heart, and told you everything you wanted to hear. He made you feel so beautiful, so alive, so wanted.Continue Reading
When I look back at all the relationships that didn't work out (that I so wanted to at the time), I realize that in every case, there were early warning signs that my guy gave me that could have given me some idea of the heartbreak I was going to experience if I had only been aware of what to look for.
So, to spare you from what happened to me, to give you the inside scoop on what you can be on the lookout for, here’s my list of the warning signs that I didn't heed. Fortunately, you still can.
Here they are, in no particular order …
Granted, I know that sometimes life can get it the way, and if he’s working late on that big project with the looming deadline it’s possible that time might get away from him once in a while.
But if this happens more than once or twice, it’s a sure sign that you’re just not a priority for him right now.Continue Reading
I’ve got some breaking news for you; you don’t need a guy to live your life.
You don’t need a guy to have a world to fit into. You don’t need a guy to feel like you can start living. It’s what you choose to make of it.
You can keep waiting, hoping for the right guy to hurry up and come along and rescue you from your current life because you think it’s easier to find yourself in someone else’s ready-made life than make one of your own.
But the price you pay for that is your self-esteem, your worth, your confidence, your you.
Did someone forget to tell you that you can be anything you want to be? You can! You can do anything, be anything, achieve anything, if you believe in yourself that you can.
Hear me on this one.
The only reason that you can’t do something is because you don’t believe you can! Do you get that?Continue Reading
Remember the last post when we were talking about how it all begins with you? Well, I’ve got more to say about that.
About how to get there when that’s the last thing you’re feeling. And you’re not sure how to begin.
I’ll tell you how it began for me.
I met with my therapist and explained to him that I was so tired of repeating the same patterns over and over again, and how I was thinking there must be something I was missing in my search for my soul mate. Some kind of key that would unlock the mystery and reveal to me the secret to finally finding my true love.
The answer he gave me was so simple and honest. Continue Reading
If you’re anything like me, you know what it’s like to always be looking for that elusive secret.
Trying to figure out what you’re missing to finally get it right. To finally find and be found by the guy that would be the right one for you.
Or at least the guy who would be the right guy to enjoy a real relationship with.
Because like you probably are, I was so tired of finding myself in dead-end relationships over and over again. It took me a long time, too, to finally attract the right kind of guy into my life. No matter how many books I’d read or advice columns I’d found.
In looking back, I realize that what was eluding me was simpler than anything I was making it out to be.Continue Reading
Have you ever noticed that you attract and are attracted to the level of your own self-esteem?
Like if you’re feeling great about yourself, full of confidence that you really are all that, you’re going to find yourself attracted to that guy in front of you at the grocery checkout line.
But if you’re feeling down, feeling like you’re not all that, maybe you had a less than glowing job review, or you’re put on a few extra pounds that you’re not happy about, then the opposite holds true as well.
And you won’t even see the guy in front of you let alone think about starting up a conversation with him.Continue Reading
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