Because they’re into skiing and we want to do things with them and we just know it’ll be easy to pick it up.
No, no, no! Do not do this.
I learned this one the hard way. And ended up on the roof. Of a shed. On the slopes.
It was supposed to be skiing on the trails, and not scary. But, in my enthusiasm for my new beau, I neglected to mention that I had never skied before, and in fact, found the whole thing a little scary.
But I, the ever idealistic pleaser, was sure it would work itself out.
So there we were. Of course I looked the part in my expensive sexy snowbunny suit, so I figured that would make it all work out. I’d look so good it wouldn’t matter that I didn’t really ski (at least not well).
But here’s the thing, with a real guy who’s authentic, he really was looking forward to doing the activity we’d planned – skiing. It was me, not him, that was all about being with me looking pretty.
I didn’t get that then, though. And it wasn’t the only time I’d done that.Continue Reading