What if you just need someone to believe in you?
All those plans, all those dreams.
They told you to find something you could actually do. They gave you all kinds of suggestions that sent the clear message they somehow knew you better than you.
They smiled to themselves, or even laughed.
But more than anything else, what they did was make you feel like there was something the matter with you.
Something wrong, something "off".
Why did you move in those directions? Why did you lean towards those things?
It’s no wonder their voice is the first one you hear when you think about doing something for yourself, when you go back to those dreams, those plans, those castles in the clouds that you’ve learned no one will ever understand like you do.
But what if someone did? What if the only thing missing is someone to believe in you?
What if the reason you’re struggling so hard to find someone is because you’re looking for someone to complete you, without even realizing that’s what you’re doing?
Could it be you just want someone to believe in you? To remind you of who you are, and what you can do? To be the wind beneath your wings?
What if you could meet that need, find someone to believe in you, so that he could be who he’s always been...a mere human.
When we put him up so high on a pedestal with all the expectations we have of him, it's no wonder he simply can’t measure up. He feels pressured, scared, and doesn’t know what to do with this amazing woman in front of him who forgets her own power in the presence of him and defers to him instead of to her own inner wisdom.
To him it just feels like unbearable pressure.
And what if that person you were looking for to believe in you was the same one looking back at you in the mirror? What if this is really about you?
Take everything you think this is about, take everything you’ve ever been told, take all those rules you’ve been led to believe you have to follow, and allow yourself to finally hear what you know in your heart of hearts to be the truth.
Love doesn’t require you to unlock a secret code.
Love could never withhold itself from you simply because you don’t know some hidden rule.
Love could never be so complicated that it requires so much more than you already have within you.
You know this! Yes, oh how you do.
The first step to bringing the only kind of love you ever want – the real kind - closer to you, is trusting that part of you that knows what you’ve never been allowed to know.
It’s because you feel everything you do.
It’s because you care so deeply, you love with abandon, you refuse to settle for what you know you should never have to. This is the part of you that makes you so beautifully and uniquely you!
It’s not your fault you’ve done everything you have, you’ve tried everything you could.
It’s time to come back to you.
Beautiful, radiant, confident, you. The real, authentic you like you’ve never known yourself before.
The one he’s been waiting for. The one he’s been looking for. The one he can’t resist.
Believe in you and he sees you. Believe in you, and he recognizes you.
It’s a shift you can finally feel in control of. You create it! And then just watch and see what shows up. The kind of love you’ve been waiting for. The kind that knows and sees and adores YOU! Unlike anything you ever thought it could be.
What do you think? What difference would this make in your life? Share your story with us in the comments!