Among all the voices that say "leave him", "dump him", etc., there lies the reality of you.
The loving, giving beautiful soul you are that knows exactly what you "should" do. They make it sound so simple, but it doesn't feel anything like simple to you. It feels heartbreaking, and so very sad, and not at all what you want to do.
How do I just walk away from someone I love?
Yes, exactly. How do any of us? It's the question you want to know the answer to.
Oh your friends have so much advice for you. In fact, even complete strangers only have to hear a few minutes of your situation before they have the same advice to offer you. How can you stay with someone who gives you so little of his time? How can you want to be with someone who can't give you a straight answer as to when, let alone if, he might someday be ready to commit to you?
They make it sound so easy, so simple, but to you with so much of your heart, your life and your time invested, it's anything but easy.
In fact, it's the hardest thing you ever tried to do.
And how can it not be? He promised so much. He gave you so many reasons to believe. He made you feel like he was on the same page as you. He talked about the same things. He said he wanted the same things.
He made you feel like all that was missing was you.Continue Reading