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The Inspiration category contains posts intended to inspire you to be your best in both love and in life. To remind you that you are beautiful, that you have worth, that you deserve the best that life and love have to offer. The Inspiration category also includes a collection of various poems, stories, etc. that have given me inspiration over the years that I'm now sharing with you.

The Only New Year’s Resolution You Need to Make

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New Year's Resolutions written across the top of a piece of paper with a pen.
This is really the only one you need.

I started out writing a list of New Year's Resolutions to recommend for this post – a collection of a few that I had made myself over the years. As I reviewed the list I started crossing some off, and then I started combining the similar ones.

I soon realized it really all came down to one single, simple resolution. Just one simple goal to strive for this coming year (which is so much easier because it’s hard enough to keep just one resolution!).

This year, this will become our mantra: Refuse to Settle for Anything Less Than You Deserve.

Because if you refuse to settle for anything less that you deserve, that means you get who you are.

And what you’re worth.

And why you’re worth just that much.Continue Reading

Radiant, Confident, Beautiful YOU! Part 2

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Beautiful, confident woman laying in the grass smiling.
Here's how you get there.

I’m guessing you might be wondering just how we get to that place where you actually feel radiant, confident and beautiful.

It begins by asking yourself some basic questions that you may not have thought about before.

Like what do you like to do?

I mean, what do you really like to do. Not what you like to do because you think a guy will like you if you like to do it.

What would you choose to do with your time if there were no men in the world?

Sometimes it helps to think about what you don’t think you can do or have been told you can’t do.

Especially what you’ve been told you can’t do.Continue Reading

Radiant, Confident, Beautiful YOU! Part 1

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A beaufiul, confident, radiant woman with her arms spread wide looking up into the sky, with the sun behind her.
It's time to start living the way you were meant to!

I’ve got some breaking news for you; you don’t need a guy to live your life.

You don’t need a guy to have a world to fit into. You don’t need a guy to feel like you can start living. It’s what you choose to make of it.

You can keep waiting, hoping for the right guy to hurry up and come along and rescue you from your current life because you think it’s easier to find yourself in someone else’s ready-made life than make one of your own.

But the price you pay for that is your self-esteem, your worth, your confidence, your you.

Did someone forget to tell you that you can be anything you want to be? You can! You can do anything, be anything, achieve anything, if you believe in yourself that you can.

Hear me on this one.

The only reason that you can’t do something is because you don’t believe you can! Do you get that?Continue Reading

Find Your Cheerleader

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Three beautiful women cheering on their friend, building her confidence.
Sometimes you need to hear it from someone else.

Remember the last post when we were talking about how it all begins with you? Well, I’ve got more to say about that.

About how to get there when that’s the last thing you’re feeling. And you’re not sure how to begin.

I’ll tell you how it began for me.

I met with my therapist and explained to him that I was so tired of repeating the same patterns over and over again, and how I was thinking there must be something I was missing in my search for my soul mate. Some kind of key that would unlock the mystery and reveal to me the secret to finally finding my true love.

The answer he gave me was so simple and honest. Continue Reading

Believe

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Loving couple sitting and hugging in the park. View from behind.
What would your life be like if you truly believed everything was going to work out perfectly?

I know what you’re thinking: It sounds like a cliché. 

Just believe! It’ll happen. Just believe it and it’ll come true.

And while there are a lot of people out there who claim the power of believing in something, that it really works, I’m going to go a step further here and talk about the power of believing that I’m referring to.

The kind for us not so sure types that get so hung up on how to do it right that we end up not getting the point of it.

It’s not just the cliché you’ve heard so many times before. It’s the real thing.Continue Reading

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