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The Inspiration category contains posts intended to inspire you to be your best in both love and in life. To remind you that you are beautiful, that you have worth, that you deserve the best that life and love have to offer. The Inspiration category also includes a collection of various poems, stories, etc. that have given me inspiration over the years that I'm now sharing with you.

Why Standing On The Sidelines, Waiting For Things to Change, Never Gets You There

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A beautiful woman sits on a bench in a park by herself.
It's time to try something different.

What does it feel like to not have to be perfect?

Or to not care about what anyone else thinks?

Or to be the woman every man wants?

Or to finally be able to let go of him?

What is it like to live like that? To not feel like there's something wrong with you, to live your life like that confident, sassy woman you know, to say "next" when he's not ready for the commitment you are? What would it be like to live your own life like this?Continue Reading

The One Thing That Changes Everything

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A beautiful, exuberant woman is in a field with her arms raised towards the sun.
Do this for yourself.

You want him to feel what you feel.

You want so badly for him to feel what you’re going through. You want him to feel the pain of your broken heart.

How could he do this to you? How could he be OK that he did what he did to you? You don’t see the role you played. You can’t. You can only look to him. After all, he did this to you, whatever this may happen to be.

He led you on. He promised so much. Until it all fell apart. Until he let you down.Continue Reading

It Begins With One Simple Act

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A beautiful woman holds her hair up while looking at the ocean.
Each and every act sends the same subtle message; you matter.

It’s the simplest thing.

It all begins simply by noticing. Noticing.

You have to stop long enough to notice if you’re going to see anything different at all. Your soft skin, your silky hair, your beautiful eyes.

Your strong arms. Your long legs.

Brushing each strand of your gorgeous, sensuous hair in long, broad, strokes.

Consciously noticing.

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The Strength / Weakness Deception

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A whiteboard with a hand writing strength and weakness, crossing out weakness.
What if you’re the strong one for giving love a chance?

You’re calling him strong, and yourself weak.

You’re looking at him as being so strong that he can walk away as easily as he does, and then yourself as weak for not being able to do the same. You think he’s strong. You think of yourself as weak.

Because you need him. And he doesn’t need you.

So you equate that with your being the needy one, the weak one who needs someone.

And the ones who don’t need anyone, you call them strong.Continue Reading

Becoming Unlost

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A beautiful woman is walking on the beach trying to become unlost.
You never thought you’d feel this lost.

Lost.

When it’s over. When the reality that this new place is worse than you thought it would be. When you long for the old reality that at least you knew.

How else to describe it except for one word … Lost

No matter whether you were prepared or not, can you ever really be prepared?Continue Reading

Why You're Never EVER Meant to Give Up Hope

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A beautiful woman looks at the sky with a rainbow in the distance symbolizing hope.
You're not meant to let go of the hope!

I'm beginning to think no one's ever seen you.

Not for who you really are. Not for all you have to offer.

You've never let the ones who can see you have the chance to see you.

That's what this is really about.

You have no idea.

Really, you don't.

These ones who give you only a fleeting glimpse of yourself, are the same ones that are never capable of being anything more than what works for them. And that's why it's so brief.

Just long enough to give you a taste, and then it's gone.

It's no wonder you're consumed with how to get it back.Continue Reading

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Hi, I'm Jane Garapick. I'm here to provide inspiration, support and empowerment on the journey to true love. I know what it’s like to have a broken heart, a broken dream, and a broken you. And I know for a fact, that your dreams can still come true! Read more...
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