You know this kind of man all too well.
He’s pulling away, he’s slowing down, he’s changing.
You’re here for one reason and one reason only: to find out how to get him back.
You want to turn back the clock, make him change back to everything you want him to be.
How do I change him back? How do I make him want what he said he wanted before? These are your questions. It's the answers you want with all your heart to know. But what if we didn't need to make it so complicated? What if it was right there in front of you?
Take your own power back. Go back to who you were and how you felt when you first met.
So full of hope. So full of confidence. So full of your own power!
Every single piece of advice you receive has one thing in common. You.
You can do this! You haven’t lost your power. You haven’t lost your you. But being with someone who doesn’t know what he wants, who comes on strong and then fades away the closer you get, takes away your beautiful power so that you don’t even know who you are anymore.
But, Beautiful, he was attracted to you for a reason.
He pursued you for a reason. Because you were you! He needs you to remember that. To remember that beautiful woman you were - and still are today! You were being your beautiful self when he found you.
What’s changed is that you want more and he’s not sure if he’s ready for more.
You’re a full-in or not-at-all kind of woman. And he senses it. He knows it. In fact, as ironic as it may seem, that’s precisely the reason he was so attracted to you in the beginning!
Go back there. Find her again. Become that Beautiful, Radiant, Confident woman, once again.
You weren’t made to nag.
You’re not here to be on the begging end when it comes to commitment. If you’re not getting what you want, if he’s saying by his words or his actions or both that he’s not on the same page as you, don’t fight him. Don’t tell him how he made all those promises in the beginning and misrepresented himself to you.
You know you’re right, but you’re not going to get that from him. That’s only going to push him farther away.
Instead, find you. Find that woman he told you he was falling in love with. Find that woman he treated like gold. She’s powerful. She’s confident.
She knows she’s the best thing that ever happened to him.
What do you need to do to take back your own power, to find that true version of yourself again? What do you need to live like you’re the best thing that ever happened to him? We’re all here to support you. Tell us about it in the comments.