Finding your YOU that leads to TWO
It's exhausting.
This search.
The journey to be or become whatever it is you think you've been missing that will finally bring you happiness, that will finally bring you life.
What if it's not about finding or seeking but about living in alignment with your heart?
What if it's not about finding any one person as much as finding your way back to yourself?
Give up the search. Give up the trying and find a place to just be.
Start with a clean slate. Start with where you are today.Continue Reading
You’ve heard the advice about finding your passion, finding that big creative outlet.
You cringe as you think about how much you hate even the idea of painting, drawing, acting, dancing, writing.
All it feels like is pressure, and more pressure, and trying to measure up or compete with people who’ve been doing this for years, while you’re once again, coming in late.
Too late.
Instead, focus on the everyday little things that bring you joy, that give you a chance to do something just for you. Those things that make you feel good about yourself, that give you confidence in you, that give you that feeling of accomplishment.
Not for anyone else, but for you.
I've been there. I've done that. I've tried all those big things and came to the same conclusion most of you have intuitively come to even if no one ever confirmed it for you.Continue Reading
I'm realizing I need to share more of these stories with you.
Real stories of other women just like you, finding your way here because my messages about your worth and your value resonated with you.
Real stories of happy endings, like the one you can't see when you're in the middle of what you're going through right now.
If you haven't already figured this out, I'm not just about getting a guy; I'm about finding yourself, finding your worth - finding your value - and from there, creating a life for yourself that includes you finding the guy you've been looking for all along.
That's what happens when you find yourself first. When you change your focus to you, away from him, the unexpected - the seemingly impossible at the time - always finds you.
That's what happened for Lynn.
Look around you.
Where is he?
Is he there?
Is he reaching out to you? Is he showing you he's worth all the time and energy you're spending thinking about him, wondering about him, going back over and over what you should have done instead?
No, he's not there.
He's not anywhere that you know for sure. Only in your mind. Only when you bring him up, when you remind yourself of everything he was, everything he seemed to be in what seems like such a different time and place.Continue Reading
If we're going to change who and what we attract, if we're going to start seeing something different in who and what shows up in our lives, we've got to start by making some big changes in how we're actually living our lives.
Today.
Not tomorrow. Not when we have more energy or time to get this right, but right now.
Here's what we're going to do:
1. Stop making anyone - and yes, I do mean anyone - the center of your universe.
It's not good for either one of you.
YOU'RE the center of your universe.
And no, that's not selfish. That's a healthy way to live your life based not on yet another fantasy but on reality. The one you control, not someone you give all your control to hoping for a different result than the one you've gotten so used to seeing.Continue Reading
If there's one thing I want you to take from what I have to say today, it's this:
It won't always be this way.
Most of how we respond, operate and act is based on the completely wrong assumption that it's always going to be this way.
That nothing is going to get better, we're never going to have the life we want, the new guy is never going to turn into the right guy, and that new job, new career opportunity is never going to happen for us.
It belies whatever we're saying on the surface because it's so deeply embedded in our subconsciousness. You don't even realize it's there except by the fact that nothing changes, nothing gets better, the new guy never turns into the right guy, and that new career opportunity never materializes.
See what happened there?
Nothing changes because we don't actually believe anything is capable of changing. For all our hope, for all our words to the contrary, our actual actions keep creating more and more of the same.
Because of that subconscious belief system again!
But things DO change.Continue Reading
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