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The ONE Thing A Man Who Can’t Commit NEEDS You to Do

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slender long-haired woman wearing white summer dress while walking on a green meadow towards a bright and sunny horizon.
There's only one thing you have to do.

You know this kind of man all too well.

He’s pulling away, he’s slowing down, he’s changing.

You’re here for one reason and one reason only: to find out how to get him back.

You want to turn back the clock, make him change back to everything you want him to be.

How do I change him back? How do I make him want what he said he wanted before? These are your questions. It's the answers you want with all your heart to know. But what if we didn't need to make it so complicated? What if it was right there in front of you?Continue Reading

Why Some Women Pull It Off, But Some Can’t

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A beautiful woman looks out over the ocean.
They make it look so easy.

Some women can do anything and they STILL get their man. They make it look so easy.

“So why can’t I?” You wonder.

The very fact that we’re looking for a list of rules to follow is the reason why.

We think if we just do this and that, or what someone says we should do, we’ll have it.

We’ll get the guy.

But the problem is that following a list of rules only gets us that list of rules. It doesn’t get us the guy!Continue Reading

Will It Ever Work Out?

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A beautiful woman sits on a bench, looking discouraged, wondering if it will ever work out.
I don't want to be in a relationship with anyone else.

Beautiful Katie has been dating a guy who's suddenly gotten very hot and cold on her. He says he doesn't want a serious relationship, and now she's wondering if it will ever work out.

Here's Her Story:

So a while ago I started seeing this guy and things were pretty good.

I had been talking to him for a while before that and we had a lot in common. When we finally met up in person it was like I had finally found someone who understood me. He was extremely nice and polite and sweet - all qualities I never knew I wanted.

I was always reading a lot into the relationship though. I hate not knowing how other people feel about me.

We went on two dates and the second one went similarly, where we got along amazingly, better than I had with anyone else, and it felt really right. He made me extremely happy.

From the beginning I was worried that he wasn't as into me as I was in him because he didn't kiss me on the first date, but then he did on the second one. We were talking almost every day after that and would have long conversations about what we wanted in life, we have very similar wants for our futures.

On top of that we have a lot in common. A lot.

It feels like we're reading each other’s minds sometimes. I got into a bad car accident after our second date and things kinda spiraled from there. I was really depressed and needed someone to be there for me in a way that was kind of asking too much of him since we weren't that serious and I got disappointed.

He was there for me but I wanted some stupid gesture like showing up at the hospital or coming to see me to make sure I was okay. That didn't happen but things were still going pretty well and he was there for me for a lot of it.

Then he stopped texting me back.Continue Reading

The Only Thing She Has that You Don’t

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It requires only one thing of you.
It requires only one thing of you.

We all know her.

She’s the one who can be herself so effortlessly. The one who says and does what she wants so unapologetically. The one who always seems to get what she wants.

She’s the one we’re secretly so jealous of. She moves about a room with ease, she’s never without a date, and unlike you, she’s not worried about who is or isn’t calling or texting or overthinking everything trying to figure out what her next move should be.

Sound familiar?

She was to me, too.

If only I was more like her, you think. If only I could do relationships and dating as easily as she seems to.Continue Reading

If I Hadn't Seen This Woman’s Amazing Transformation Myself, I Never Would Have Believed It!

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A beautiful, confident woman sits smiling at the table in a fine restaurant while the waiter delivers her food.
She had men falling all over her!

She was the woman everyone noticed as she walked into the room.

"I love your dress", said one of the women at our table. "Something seems different about you", said another.

I couldn't have agreed more.

I vaguely recognized her from somewhere, but it took me a while to remember where I knew her from.

Then I remembered. I had met her a month or so before at a mutual friend's party when she had overheard me talking with another woman about what I do.Continue Reading

The Confidence We Were Never Given

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A beautiful young woman is figure skating, building her confidence and enjoying her passion.
It's time to let your light shine!

I've recently taken up ice skating again.

You may remember this post where I mention my aspirations to become a professional figure skater as a young girl. I rediscovered my love of ice skating in my late twenties during my own personal quest to find my passions and create the life I always wanted – and rediscovered the little girl with such big dreams in the process.

As happens with life sometimes, the ice skates went into a box and got put in the back of the closet along with a lot of other things while more pressing priorities (like raising small children) took over the forefront of my life.

But now, I'm happy to say, they're once again seeing not only the light of day, but the beautiful cold smoothness of the ice once again. This time around I'm skating with my kids, and it's an amazingly enjoyable activity for me to do with them.

Whenever the music's playing over the sound system, the disco lights are flashing and I'm gliding over the freshly cleaned ice, I get that feeling like the world's my oyster once again.

Like anything is possible.

And that feeling is the exact reason why I’m always encouraging you to find a form of creative expression that speaks to you. Something you love and can feel passionate about. When you discover this for yourself, you’ll know exactly why!

But that's not what this post is about.

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