You know those women we all know who seem to have no problem attracting any number of men and who make this dating thing seem so effortless?
They’re the ones we’re usually comparing ourselves to, wondering what it is they have that we don’t and how we can get what they've got.
You know it’s something, you just don't know what it is. You can’t quite put a finger on it.
The first thing we go to is their looks – yes, they’re attractive, but not always in any knockout/supermodel kind of way.
Is it the way they’re dressed? The way they carry themselves? Is it their smile?
As much as we try to pin it on one particular thing or another, the answer eludes us because it’s not just about any one particular trait or characteristic. It goes much deeper than that.
It's all of those little things that can be summed up in one word:
Confidence
It’s the one thing that underlies everything else. It doesn't matter how attractive you are, how sexy you are, how amazing you are in any number of ways, if you don’t have this part down nothing else matters. Nothing.Continue Reading
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