Finding your YOU that leads to TWO
There’s something I have to say. You need to know this. Now.
Because when you’re in it, you’re not going to see this part. You can’t when your heart is breaking.
When you’re hurting, when you’re grasping at anything and everything to try and keep him from pulling even further away, this part will be the hardest to hear.
There’s a reason it hurts. There’s a reason for the pain.Continue Reading
Our letter this week comes from our gorgeous friend, Jade, as she tells us the story of her rocky relationship with a disappearing guy.
Before I ask my question, I want to give you a background story.
I've been with this guy for almost 3 years now. We've had ups and down the first year, but that's normal. But then came the twist.
Around January 2015 he left to boot camp, everything seemed okay after 3 months of not hearing from him, but then around August of last year, he left to North Carolina for school (Military) and he changed.
He stopped calling me and texting me, I caught him flirting with women on social media, he deleted photos of us, he would tell those women how he felt for them, (ex: "I find you really pretty...") and so on.
He would then tell me how annoying I was and clingy, take in mind that we were in a long distant relationship.Continue Reading
Our beautiful friend, Tali, had her boyfriend of 4 months suddenly pull away and then disappear and she's wondering if he'll ever come back.
Dear Jane,
Thank you I just read your reply to Elise's email and it helped me as your emails always help me when I'm going through these constant painful patterns.
The guy I had been seeing for 4 months, who was calling me every day, sometimes even talking on the phone for hours and we were going on dates...messaged me and told me he needs time and he will find a way to get our connection back.
I was very upset and wrote back to his message including questions and he never wrote back.Continue Reading
Oh, the pain of getting dumped!
Just about all of us have been there before, some of us quite often. Our beautiful friend Tony has just gone through this (again), and is wondering why she keeps getting dumped for other women.
Wow, I honestly never pictured myself writing to you especially after I got my boyfriend, who is now my ex as of yesterday.
So here it goes...
I don't know how to explain how I feel. I am caught between two emotions: hurt and relief.Continue Reading
This week, our gorgeous friend, Elise, is second guessing herself and wondering if she did the right thing.
Dear Jane,
I broke up from my boyfriend 6 days a go. We met a year ago and started to like each other very quickly. I am 26 and he 27.
Upon discussing values and life goals we realized some key differences, I am religious and eventually I want to settle down with children. I was resolute about not wanting to go further unless we were clear we wanted the same things.
He said he couldn't say if he wanted those things for his life and we decided to stop seeing each other. But 2 months later he got back in touch with me and after mentioning how he had visited friends during holidays and the children had loved him we entered a relationship.Continue Reading
Our beautiful friend, Jade, was stood up and she's wondering if she should confront him, or just walk away.
I normally don't write...but I find your blogs to be extremely helpful and on point.
And I'm in need of some advice. Or just clarification on what might have happened.
I dated a guy off and on for a year. Each time we took a break it was because I wanted a relationship and he did not. His excuse was he just got out of a long term relationship before he met me and wasn't ready.
We started talking again after three months of no contact. He stated he was thinking of me and wanted to meet up for dinner soon.
I was a little reluctant but agreed.
We planned to meet on Friday and he even confirmed the day before. Friday came and went and he was a no show.Continue Reading
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