Finding your YOU that leads to TWO
The Inspiration category contains posts intended to inspire you to be your best in both love and in life. To remind you that you are beautiful, that you have worth, that you deserve the best that life and love have to offer. The Inspiration category also includes a collection of various poems, stories, etc. that have given me inspiration over the years that I'm now sharing with you.
There's a trail of messages behind you.
Too emotional. Too sensitive. Too heavy. Too deep.
Too this. Too that.
Too much is what you hear.
Not enough is what you feel.
I know this, because this is what I felt, too. We all do, they're different for each one of us, but they're there.Continue Reading
We all know her.
She’s the one who can be herself so effortlessly. The one who says and does what she wants so unapologetically. The one who always seems to get what she wants.
She’s the one we’re secretly so jealous of. She moves about a room with ease, she’s never without a date, and unlike you, she’s not worried about who is or isn’t calling or texting or overthinking everything trying to figure out what her next move should be.
Sound familiar?
She was to me, too.
If only I was more like her, you think. If only I could do relationships and dating as easily as she seems to.Continue Reading
What if you just need someone to believe in you?
All those plans, all those dreams.
They told you to find something you could actually do. They gave you all kinds of suggestions that sent the clear message they somehow knew you better than you.
They smiled to themselves, or even laughed.
But more than anything else, what they did was make you feel like there was something the matter with you.
Something wrong, something "off".Continue Reading
We all want to be happy, right?
And we know that if we’re happy now, before we’re in a relationship, then we’re much, much more likely to be happy later, when we’re in a committed relationship.
And here’s the funny thing – we’re also much, much more likely to GET into a relationship when we’re happy. And we’re much more likely to get into a relationship with someone else who’s happy when we’re already happy.
And that leads to what’s known as a happy relationship, which is something we all want.
Am I right?
So then the question is, how do we get happy when we just don’t feel happy right now?Continue Reading
What would it be like if you could feel something, but not act on it?
What would it mean for you if you could observe without jumping into action right away?
What if you could see who someone was, how they were treating you, and how they responded to you without having to do something – anything – about it right that moment?
Would you feel more confident? Would you feel more in control? Would you feel more able to see what was real – and what wasn’t?
This year, I have a word for your New Year’s Resolution.
Instead of the usual full throttle, over the top resolve that we usually put on ourselves at the first of the year. Instead of setting ourselves up for failure with some kind of impossible goal that always seems to run its course in a matter of weeks and then fall off our radar.
No, this time we’re going for a simple word:Continue Reading
It’s the end of the year.
Another year.
Most likely another year that didn’t bring you the love you were hoping for.
Another year that ended before you were ready to claim defeat.
Another year that missed the mark in all that it promised to be at the start.
It’s enough to make the strongest among us lose ourselves in what could have been, what should have been, and what we so wanted it to be.
But there’s a problem with this approach.Continue Reading
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