I hear the same thing from so many of you, and it's the same thing that I used to say myself not so very long ago.
I hear you saying that you want a guy to make a commitment to you. You want a guy to want to have a committed relationship with you. You're wondering if you'll ever find a guy who really wants a commitment.
It might be that you've started dating a guy and you want to know if he's going to want a committed relationship or if he's going to turn into a stringer (i.e. a guy who strings you along for years only to finally break it off), or maybe you've already been strung along for quite a long time and you want to know how to get him to finally make a commitment.
Or it might be that you're single, and you want to know how to find a man that IS ready for commitment, because all of the men you've met so far have turned out to be commitment phobes.
For all of these reasons, and many more, it's one of the biggest questions on our minds.
A committed relationship
My question to you is this: What does a committed relationship look like to you?
What does commitment really mean? Have you ever really sat down and thought about what it is, exactly, that you're looking for when you say you want a committed relationship? When you think that you want a guy to commit?
Most of us haven't.Continue Reading