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This is how you'll know if you're meant to be with someone

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This is how you'll know - for sure!

You: But I just know we're meant to be together!

Me: Know how you'll know if you're meant to be with someone?

Because they'll be there with you.

They'll be there for you. They'll show you with their actions and behavior that they actually want to be with you.

Not just empty words and promises they can never live up to.

There won't be any doubt. You won't be trying to figure them out.

You won't have to. They'll want you to know how they feel!

In fact, they wouldn't ever want you to doubt how they feel because - and here's the kicker - they will actually care about you and your feelings.

Yes. That's right. They will actually CARE about how you feel.

Got this? Good. Because that's how you'll know. And girl, you will absolutely know!

Love,

Jane

Now tell me "I got it!" in the comments!

I Want Him To Be The Last

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I thought he was really the one.

Our letter this week comes from beautiful Jerryll, who, for all the problems in their relationship, just wants him to be the last.

Here’s her story.

Am I too selfish for wanting to be happy? Is it wrong that I want to wait for him?

I mean, he left without saying good bye, and he even told me I am his ex on his chat mate.

I chatted something rude, using his account but I can't accept it, I am really confused.

I thought he was really the one.

The worst part is that I just saw their chat on Valentine’s Day. I'm going nuts nowadays, he's my first boyfriend, I want him to be the last.

-JerryllContinue Reading

Is He The One For Me?

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How will I know if he's the one for me?

You want to know. No, you need to know.

Is he The One for me?

I get asked this question all the time. Did I know my husband was the one when we were dating? How long did it take before I knew for sure? And how do you know?

Is it the way he makes you feel?

Is it how he treats you?

Is it how much chemistry there is between you?

Well, I can tell you that when we first met, I didn’t know for sure. In fact, since we met twice (with a year and a half between the first and the second time) I can tell you that the first time I definitely didn’t know for sure.

But was it because of anything to do with him? Or was it more likely because I had learned from my long line of heartbreaking experiences with men that it takes more than a date or two to know for sure if anyone is the one?Continue Reading

Is He The One?

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My heart believes he's the one, but in my mind I know it's not right.

I receive so many letters asking this question. The stories may be different, from women from all different walks of life, all different ages and from all different parts of the world, but the question is always the same.

Is he the one?

It’s easy for me. After all, without the emotional attachment, I’m able to hold an objective view that you can’t see when you’re so emotionally invested.

But there’s one thing that I use to make that assessment more than anything else. What you say.

When you tell me you love him BUT. When you tell me he could be the one EXCEPT.

When you have all the reasons he could be but then in your words you say the one thing I’m waiting for, you tell me everything. Everything.

That’s where you need to go, Beautiful.

There. Right there.Continue Reading

How Do I Get My Power Back?

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A beautiful woman is looking sad and lonely because she feels like she blew it with the one.
If only I hadn't acted the way I did!

Our beautiful friend, Hope, is feeling like she blew it with a guy who she thinks was "the one", and she's wondering if she'll ever have another chance.

Here's her story:

Hi Jane,

Thank you, I wish I had seen these videos a few weeks back but I am definitely going to follow your advice going forward.

I do have a question though, I recently met a guy and I was very attracted to him, he had the look that I wanted and he seemed like a good guy. I wanted so much for it to work, but I scared him away, by being the pursuer and as you said being too excited and putting him on a pedestal.

He told me he didn't have time right now to be involved with anyone.

Hoping to leave the door open, I told him I understood and he could contact me if he wanted to. I guess I'm wondering if I had not acted so anxious and had followed your advice if he would have acted differently and if things could have worked out.

I feel it was all my fault.Continue Reading

One Love

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Heart shaped cloud image with the words "one love" written in them.
Is there really only one?

What could be more cruel?

Nothing more than the idea that there’s only one.

One love.

One him.

And only one.

You miss your chance, you mess this up, you screw it up – and you’re done.

One chance to get it right.

One chance to make it work.

One Mr. Right.

One soulmate.Continue Reading

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