Finding your YOU that leads to TWO
She wanted to know more.
What did I mean about this power of yes? What was I talking about? She wasn’t the only one. I heard from many of you who asked the same question.
What was I talking about in my post "The Undeniable Power of Yes"?
So we’re going back. To answer that question for the rest of us.Continue Reading
When we’ve tried again and again and it still hasn’t worked, when we’re so tired of having to explain why it happened again to the same people we had told this time was different, it’s hard to feel passionate about anything.
And yet this is what love and life asks of us.
Are we sure? Is this what we really want?
There are few actions we can choose to take that will elicit the power of everything around us more than the power of saying “yes.”
Far too often we find ourselves saying “I guess so” or “maybe” out of fear, out of uncertainty or out of our need to know the end result first before diving in.
Our first reaction may be indignation or even anger at even the suggestion that we might not know what we want or be sure enough.Continue Reading
What does it feel like to not have to be perfect?
Or to not care about what anyone else thinks?
Or to be the woman every man wants?
Or to finally be able to let go of him?
What is it like to live like that? To not feel like there's something wrong with you, to live your life like that confident, sassy woman you know, to say "next" when he's not ready for the commitment you are? What would it be like to live your own life like this?Continue Reading
I hear these words from so many of you.
"But I don't want to have to!"
Whether you're talking about meeting new men, going to singles events, signing up for online dating, going to new places, finding your passions, following your interests, your response is so often the same.
The way that said he was The One and your search was over.
The way that said that you didn't have to put yourself out there – again.
The way that had you imaging your future together and it felt so good!
The way that finally gave you the answer to address all those questions of "why are you still single?"
Why couldn't it be the easy way?Continue Reading
Where is this illusive soul? Where does he hide? Where does he spend his time?
What places call to him, and who are the people he spends his time with?
I know this is what you're really asking.
Where is he? And where do I find him?
If there was one question I asked myself a thousand times, it was this one. There was no one who understood just how elusive he could be more than me.Continue Reading
I've recently taken up ice skating again.
You may remember this post where I mention my aspirations to become a professional figure skater as a young girl. I rediscovered my love of ice skating in my late twenties during my own personal quest to find my passions and create the life I always wanted – and rediscovered the little girl with such big dreams in the process.
As happens with life sometimes, the ice skates went into a box and got put in the back of the closet along with a lot of other things while more pressing priorities (like raising small children) took over the forefront of my life.
But now, I'm happy to say, they're once again seeing not only the light of day, but the beautiful cold smoothness of the ice once again. This time around I'm skating with my kids, and it's an amazingly enjoyable activity for me to do with them.
Whenever the music's playing over the sound system, the disco lights are flashing and I'm gliding over the freshly cleaned ice, I get that feeling like the world's my oyster once again.
And that feeling is the exact reason why I’m always encouraging you to find a form of creative expression that speaks to you. Something you love and can feel passionate about. When you discover this for yourself, you’ll know exactly why!
But that's not what this post is about.
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