Finding your YOU that leads to TWO
Kindness.
Gentleness.
Compassion.
Empathy.
Actions.
Not shallow words that mean nothing without the behavior to accompany them.
Look around you.
Are these what you experience from your lovers, your boyfriends, your girl friends, your family, all these ones you give so much of your time, your energy, your own kindness and gentleness and compassion and empathy to?Continue Reading
You know this kind of man all too well.
He’s pulling away, he’s slowing down, he’s changing.
You’re here for one reason and one reason only: to find out how to get him back.
You want to turn back the clock, make him change back to everything you want him to be.
How do I change him back? How do I make him want what he said he wanted before? These are your questions. It's the answers you want with all your heart to know. But what if we didn't need to make it so complicated? What if it was right there in front of you?Continue Reading
Some women can do anything and they STILL get their man. They make it look so easy.
“So why can’t I?” You wonder.
The very fact that we’re looking for a list of rules to follow is the reason why.
We think if we just do this and that, or what someone says we should do, we’ll have it.
We’ll get the guy.
But the problem is that following a list of rules only gets us that list of rules. It doesn’t get us the guy!Continue Reading
Beautiful Katie has been dating a guy who's suddenly gotten very hot and cold on her. He says he doesn't want a serious relationship, and now she's wondering if it will ever work out.
So a while ago I started seeing this guy and things were pretty good.
I had been talking to him for a while before that and we had a lot in common. When we finally met up in person it was like I had finally found someone who understood me. He was extremely nice and polite and sweet - all qualities I never knew I wanted.
I was always reading a lot into the relationship though. I hate not knowing how other people feel about me.
We went on two dates and the second one went similarly, where we got along amazingly, better than I had with anyone else, and it felt really right. He made me extremely happy.
From the beginning I was worried that he wasn't as into me as I was in him because he didn't kiss me on the first date, but then he did on the second one. We were talking almost every day after that and would have long conversations about what we wanted in life, we have very similar wants for our futures.
On top of that we have a lot in common. A lot.
It feels like we're reading each other’s minds sometimes. I got into a bad car accident after our second date and things kinda spiraled from there. I was really depressed and needed someone to be there for me in a way that was kind of asking too much of him since we weren't that serious and I got disappointed.
He was there for me but I wanted some stupid gesture like showing up at the hospital or coming to see me to make sure I was okay. That didn't happen but things were still going pretty well and he was there for me for a lot of it.
Then he stopped texting me back.Continue Reading
We all know her.
She’s the one who can be herself so effortlessly. The one who says and does what she wants so unapologetically. The one who always seems to get what she wants.
She’s the one we’re secretly so jealous of. She moves about a room with ease, she’s never without a date, and unlike you, she’s not worried about who is or isn’t calling or texting or overthinking everything trying to figure out what her next move should be.
Sound familiar?
She was to me, too.
If only I was more like her, you think. If only I could do relationships and dating as easily as she seems to.Continue Reading
She was the woman everyone noticed as she walked into the room.
"I love your dress", said one of the women at our table. "Something seems different about you", said another.
I couldn't have agreed more.
I vaguely recognized her from somewhere, but it took me a while to remember where I knew her from.
Then I remembered. I had met her a month or so before at a mutual friend's party when she had overheard me talking with another woman about what I do.Continue Reading
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