When he doesn’t have to drive to see you – because you come to him.
When he doesn’t have to give you love – to get sex.
When he doesn’t have to court you, date you, prove his worth to you – because you make this all so easy for him.
There’s a lie going around that we believe we just have to be enough, love enough, try hard enough, give enough and he’s going to come around.
It’s been going around as long as we were old enough to absorb it, and it’s spread all around us from the music we listen to, to the shows and movies we watch, to the more subtle messages marketed to us in advertisements, carried in familiar adages we never question, and in the words of everyone around us who’s bought into it, too.Continue Reading