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The Biggest Lie You Were Ever Told

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A beautiful woman looks down, sad, wondering if her boyfriend is getting distant.
You give and you give. And then you give some more. Because they told you to.

I see you, you know. Maybe because I've been you.

He treats you like he's got so many options you should be lucky he's paying any attention to you, and what do you do? You give and you give. And then you give some more.

He's a no-show. You track him down to make sure he's okay and when he finally answers you, you tell him you're the one who's sorry.

He doesn't call when he says he will. You get tired of waiting and send him a message only to hear back from him hours later that he worked late or fell asleep. You empathize with him and tell him you're sorry. You hope he gets some sleep.

Even when he ends it, you're telling him you'll always care about him and always be there for him. He doesn't say anything like that to you.

Even as he's walking away, laughing behind your back to his friends as he tells them the story. Still caring, still trying, still pining, still care-taking for his emotions, his fragile ego, his wounded younger self.Continue Reading

Why Did He Disappear On Me?

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Angry woman stood up on a date in a coffee shop looking at her phone
On that day, I got ready, I  was happy, and sat there waiting.

Our letter this week comes from our gorgeous friend, Jade, as she tells us the story of her rocky relationship with a disappearing guy.

Her letter:

Before I ask my question, I want to give you a background story.

I've been with this guy for almost 3 years now. We've had ups and down the first year, but that's normal. But then came the twist.

Around January 2015 he left to boot camp, everything seemed okay after 3 months of not hearing from him, but then around August of last year, he left to North Carolina for school (Military) and he changed.

He stopped calling me and texting me, I caught him flirting with women on social media, he deleted photos of us, he would tell those women how he felt for them, (ex: "I find you really pretty...") and so on.

He would then tell me how annoying I was and clingy, take in mind that we were in a long distant relationship.Continue Reading

He Stood Me Up - Should I Confront Him?

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A beautiful woman sits at a table by herself after he stood her up.
Why would he make plans and then stand me up?

Our beautiful friend, Jade, was stood up and she's wondering if she should confront him, or just walk away.

Here's her story:

I normally don't write...but I find your blogs to be extremely helpful and on point.

And I'm in need of some advice. Or just clarification on what might have happened.

I dated a guy off and on for a year. Each time we took a break it was because I wanted a relationship and he did not. His excuse was he just got out of a long term relationship before he met me and wasn't ready.

We started talking again after three months of no contact. He stated he was thinking of me and wanted to meet up for dinner soon.

I was a little reluctant but agreed.

We planned to meet on Friday and he even confirmed the day before. Friday came and went and he was a no show.Continue Reading

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