It feels so personal, doesn't it?
When he says "It’s going good just the way it is, let’s not mess with it", you just can't help it. You think it's because of you.
"I must not be enough", you tell yourself.
Or I must be too much. Or, in other words, "There must be something wrong with me that I'm doing everything I'm supposed to do and it's STILL not enough to get him to commit to me."
So let's clear this up right now before you go any further with why this is somehow your fault that you're stalled in the in-between zone.
It's not because of you.
It's because of what any deeper of a commitment to you represents to him!Continue Reading
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