Finding your YOU that leads to TWO
There are 3 things you NEED to know about guys who won’t commit.
I know you think he’s going to be different with you.
I know you think you’re going to be the exception to his whole history with women because you’ve got so much of that beautiful loving in your heart that NOTHING anyone says is going to faze you.
I’m here to set the record straight because I’ve seen way too much of this and girl, it is HURTING YOU!Continue Reading
Ever been ghosted and had to let go without any closure? That's what Trisha's going through. If that's an all-too familiar theme for you, read on to hear her story and my response. You can also check out this video I just posted about how to get closure and move on.
Hi Jane,
I'm having a horrible time dealing with a recent situation with an ex.
We dated for 8 months. During this time things felt ok and progressive, yet I could tell he had a wall up and I could not understand why.Continue Reading
Don't spend any more of your time or energy on why it didn't work out, why he ghosted you or whatever else you can't let go of.
We spend wayyyyy too much time ruminating over everything we should have done differently to keep a guy.
The only retrospect you want is that he wasn't your guy.
There's lots of different guys, just this one wasn't yours!
Your goal is to meet as many men as possible and move on from the ones who ghost you or don't pursue you.Continue Reading
That was Kate's question for me. And my answer to her is the same to you if you've ever asked this yourself.
Hi Jane,
I met my boyfriend online, and at first I wanted to be just friends and he wanted to be more than friends. Later I changed my mind and decided to go out with him.
We dated for about 1-1/2 months and he broke it off yesterday saying he didn't have romantic feelings for me and that he thought of me as a friend. I'm so shocked and heartbroken because I really really liked him and thought we'd be together for a while.
We don't have much in common and we don't really know each other so I thought maybe that might be the problem. I want to be friends with him but I really want to get back together with him.
He was the best boyfriend I have ever had and he's a really good guy.Continue Reading
We say too much.
They pull back, they pull away.
We stop talking.
We've learned.
We don't say enough.
They call us boring.
We start saying more.
We've learned.
But what have we really learned except how to pay even closer attention than we already do, to what they say, what they don't say, how they respond, how they don't respond?
To the high self-esteemed among us, what they learn is something very different from what we learn.Continue Reading
Have you ever wondered why this happens? You're not the only one. Read on to find out what I have to say about this!
Hi Jane,
I am writing this to let out some steam as I don't have many friends and really have no one to talk to.
March 2020, in the first week of lockdown, I was suggested to use dating apps by my parent's to get to know more people and see if anything develops. As I am extremely introverted and like to spend majority of my time alone.
On the first week of using a dating app, I met him.
We added each other's contact information and had on and off short conversations into July when he had added my Instagram. I never initiated any of the conversations and gave short replies as I was still very skeptical of online dating and because of my shy nature, I didn't know how to start the conversations.Continue Reading
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