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One guy; really?

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Beautiful woman looking out the window on a rainy day, wondering if it serves her.
It's time to look at it for what it really is.

He's one guy.

I get that.

One really important guy you've pinned all your hopes and dreams on.

I get that, too.

But because one person isn't capable of seeing you, you're going to let that one person define your worth?

No! Not this time and not any other time either.

We're done doing that. We've done that too many times already.

Take him down off that pedestal right now, girl, and take a look at what you've actually got.

The real picture, not the fantasy of "but you don't know him like I do" that you keep coming back to. I DO know him like you do because guys like him are the ONLY ones I'd ever known before I finally did something about it and they all follow a familiar pattern.

Someone who breaks your heart over and over again.

Someone who triggers every one of your blind spots so you can't even see why it's happening. (Get my program WHY MEN PULL AWAY if you want to finally understand why.)

Sure, those good times feel great. Sure, he's got a ton of potential. But there's more to life than potential that breaks your heart every single day, more to life than tears and loneliness and waiting for something to change.

Whatever happened to the woman you used to be who would NEVER allow herself to be treated this way?

Love,

Jane

Whatever happened to her? We all have our stories, our reasons why we've settled for the things that we do. Share yours here in the comments so we can make her more than just a memory again. I want to bring you back to the woman you used to be who stands in her power and NEVER allows herself to be treated this way!

Duped by an avoidant guy. Is it fear that drove him away?

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Sad woman hugging her emotionally unavailable boyfriend and looking down.
Was fear the driver of all of this?

Ever wondered why you keep attracting men with an avoidant-attachment style? Anne shared her story about someone just like this. Read on to hear what happened and my thoughts on why.

Her Story:

Hi Jane ...I just bought your book after another failed almost-relationship. It was so helpful, thank you. I wanted to explain my story; sorry that it’s long.

I work in a helping profession and am patient and all about feelings; I'm like so many of the women in this community.Continue Reading

Don't accept this!

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A beautiful woman is holding her head in her hands wondering if her boyfriend who has commitment issues is just playing games or if he wants a committed relationship.
I feel like I wasn't good enough.

I'm speaking to every one of you today who's ever been left by some guy who was NEVER good enough for you.

Stop with the "I wasn't good enough", "He's thrown me away", and everything else we say.

No, you haven't been discarded, girl. Don't accept that as your verdict!

You were saved from being with someone who would NEVER have been the one for you unless you were someone else. So choose to either change to be that someone else - or embrace who you already are and accept that you can't make someone want to be with you who isn't looking for you!

This isn't a "prove your worth" game with all the wrong ones; it's a "find someone who's actually compatible with you because he's looking for someone just like you" reality.

Not a game, not a challenge, not a distraction from doing your own work. It's a beautiful life if you choose to stop looking at it in these old no-longer-serving-you ways!

Okay?

Love,

Jane

Tell me you got this message loud and clear in the comments, girl. I see you. I've felt your pain. And no, he still doesn't get to discard you. You were saved for something far better than him!

Can I trust him when he wants to "take it slow"?

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He says he needs to date other women to be sure.

Beautiful Emma wants a committed, exclusive relationship with her boyfriend of almost three months, but he doesn't. Ever been there?

Here's what she wrote:

Hi Jane... I love your work.

I know you've talked about these types of men before but I'm hoping you can help me with the following issue:

I've been seeing this guy I met online for, maybe, 2.5 months (not exclusive). We have a great connection.Continue Reading

This is how you'll know if you're meant to be with someone

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happy young woman giving thumbs up on a pink background
This is how you'll know - for sure!

You: But I just know we're meant to be together!

Me: Know how you'll know if you're meant to be with someone?

Because they'll be there with you.

They'll be there for you. They'll show you with their actions and behavior that they actually want to be with you.

Not just empty words and promises they can never live up to.

There won't be any doubt. You won't be trying to figure them out.

You won't have to. They'll want you to know how they feel!

In fact, they wouldn't ever want you to doubt how they feel because - and here's the kicker - they will actually care about you and your feelings.

Yes. That's right. They will actually CARE about how you feel.

Got this? Good. Because that's how you'll know. And girl, you will absolutely know!

Love,

Jane

Now tell me "I got it!" in the comments!

I found out he's married. Should I leave him?

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Couple not talking after a fight on the sofa in living room at home
He said he was single!

Tina wrote to me about a man she's in love with who also happens to be married. Whether you've ever found yourself in a similar situation or just have a response to this one, I'm sure you'll have something you want her to know.

Her Email:

Hi Jane,

I'm been in love with a married man for over a year now. I found out that he is married but he said he was single.  We have said "I love you" to each other. I'm not sure what to do.  I'm not sure if he really loves his wife or not.  Should I leave him?

TinaContinue Reading

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