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The Only Thing She Has that You Don’t

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It requires only one thing of you.
It requires only one thing of you.

We all know her.

She’s the one who can be herself so effortlessly. The one who says and does what she wants so unapologetically. The one who always seems to get what she wants.

She’s the one we’re secretly so jealous of. She moves about a room with ease, she’s never without a date, and unlike you, she’s not worried about who is or isn’t calling or texting or overthinking everything trying to figure out what her next move should be.

Sound familiar?

She was to me, too.

If only I was more like her, you think. If only I could do relationships and dating as easily as she seems to.Continue Reading

How Could He Just Walk Away?

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A man walks away from a woman after break up.
I don't understand what happened!

This week, our gorgeous friend, Elise, is second guessing herself and wondering if she did the right thing.

Here's her letter:

Dear Jane,

I broke up from my boyfriend 6 days a go. We met a year ago and started to like each other very quickly. I am 26 and he 27.

Upon discussing values and life goals we realized some key differences, I am religious and eventually I want to settle down with children. I was resolute about not wanting to go further unless we were clear we wanted the same things.

He said he couldn't say if he wanted those things for his life and we decided to stop seeing each other. But 2 months later he got back in touch with me and after mentioning how he had visited friends during holidays and the children had loved him we entered a relationship.Continue Reading

The Only Role You’re Meant to Play

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A beautiful woman is standing on stage, representing a brand new you.
It's time for you to shine.

It’s opening night.

All eyes are on the curtain as it slowly begins to rise.

There you are.

He’s looking at you like he’s never seen you before. And with good reason. He hasn’t.

Not like this.

You step out into the spotlight and he sees the woman he’s been waiting for his entire life.

You.

He can’t look anywhere else. You mesmerize him like no one else has ever done before.Continue Reading

He Stood Me Up - Should I Confront Him?

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A beautiful woman sits at a table by herself after he stood her up.
Why would he make plans and then stand me up?

Our beautiful friend, Jade, was stood up and she's wondering if she should confront him, or just walk away.

Here's her story:

I normally don't write...but I find your blogs to be extremely helpful and on point.

And I'm in need of some advice. Or just clarification on what might have happened.

I dated a guy off and on for a year. Each time we took a break it was because I wanted a relationship and he did not. His excuse was he just got out of a long term relationship before he met me and wasn't ready.

We started talking again after three months of no contact. He stated he was thinking of me and wanted to meet up for dinner soon.

I was a little reluctant but agreed.

We planned to meet on Friday and he even confirmed the day before. Friday came and went and he was a no show.Continue Reading

Should I Initiate Contact?

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A woman looks at her phone while texting.
Here's how to know when you should (and shouldn't) initiate contact.

You’ve asked everyone you know, and even some you don’t. You’ve Googled it. You’ve read article after article to find your answer and still the answer seems to elude you. It either doesn’t sit right, isn’t you, or sounds too complicated.

There’s a reason you’re confused. It IS confusing!

You hear stories of women who made that initial contact and now they’re happily married! You hear of other women who never EVER initiated any contact, and now they’re happily married, too! Then there’s the in-between stories of the ones who initiated sometimes, and others who only initiated once in a while.

So here you are trying to figure out which one is right, which one is wrong, and which one is right for you, and it’s no wonder you’re finding yourself more confused than ever.Continue Reading

Is It Too Late For Me?

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A beautiful woman with camera looking at a man.
It's the lens we see through that colors everything.

This week our question comes from one of our beautiful readers, Sheela, who is wondering if it's too late for her and if all the good men really are taken.

Here's her email:

Hi Jane

I really love your blog and I was hoping you could answer a question.

I'm 38 years old, and I've never had any kind of a serious relationship, simply because I went through so many traumatic incidents in childhood and suffered such severe school bullying that I was afraid of getting close to men.

I've never gone past a few dates with anyone.Continue Reading

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