We don’t want to have to do anything. We just want it to work out.
We do everything we can to prove that we belong, that we’re in the right place, that he’s the right one for us. We play the part, we take on the role, we pour all our time and energy into making this our place.
Except that forcing something that isn’t meant to be forced - that doesn’t want to be forced - never works out in the end.
Because it can’t.
If we were already in the place that we’re going to come to, we’d recognize that we actually don’t want it to, either.Continue Reading