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If you're ready to give up, read this first

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A beautiful woman is frazzled because she can't seem to get over a breakup.
Let go. Let it all go.

If you're ready to give up, I'll give up with you.

I'll stand beside you, I'll be right there with you. You won't be alone. We'll do this together.

You don't have to try so hard anymore. You don't have to keep the struggle alive.

The fact that it's so much of a struggle at all is telling you something.

Let go. Let it all go.

Turn it over to God or the Universe or some higher power that's always partnering WITH you for what's best FOR you.

Stop trying so hard. Start over.

A roof over your head. Food & water. Heat and cooling. It's Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs. You start with the basics. Physical/physiological needs.

Safety. Security. Within yourself. From you, not anyone else. You can't have the rest without making sure you have those.

Now you're ready to make a plan to get all your other needs met. You're here, now. Stay with me.Continue Reading

Why This Year Is Going to Be Different

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Woman making personal transformation in her life, leaving an old life behind and looking forward to a new better one.
It's time for a brand new start!

Remember last January? 2020 was supposed to be your year.

The year that would be different.

The year that was supposed to give way to your dreams, your plans.

It was supposed to be the year you met him, or the year you finally left him, or the year you went back to school, the year you got that promotion, the year you quit your job, the year you stood up to him, the year you stopped letting what everyone thinks of you control so much of your life.Continue Reading

But That's Not You, Is It?

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A beautiful woman sits on a beach looking sad because her ex has moved on.
You poured every part of your being into your relationship with him.

Years of walking through heartbreak, both my own and with you, have confirmed one very specific thing; we don't get over it, avoid it, or use strategies to keep it from affecting us.

We walk through it. We feel it.

All of it.

There are women who follow a practical "3-step guide" to getting over a guy and that’s all they need.

They get a new hairstyle.

They get a makeover.

They buy some new clothes.

Maybe they take a trip somewhere.

But that’s not you.

No, you feel everything.Continue Reading

Pick One Thing

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A beautiful woman walks down a path, representing different choices in her relationships.
There are so many different roads to the same place.

Anyone need a little hope today?

Because there's no feeling of hope when you're in the thick of it. Not when it feels like nothing is ever going to get better because you can't get past every little mistake you made, every wrong path, every choice you should have made so differently.

That's the only thing that's clear when you're here.

Every choice you made that you regret making because of where it led, every "mistake" you think you made, every thing you ever did that gave you a different outcome than the one you wanted that path to lead to, makes it's so hard to believe that it's BECAUSE of those things that you're going to get to a different place that's actually the place you want to be!

But that's exactly my point.

See, there are so many different roads to the same place. Pick one, any one.

Pick the one that makes the most sense to you right now. Or pick the one that your heart tells you to right now.Continue Reading

Anyone Else Exhausted?

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A very tired, stressed and fed up attractive woman. wondering if she's too emotional.
Yes, it's truly exhausting.

It's exhausting.

This search.

The journey to be or become whatever it is you think you've been missing that will finally bring you happiness, that will finally bring you life.

What if it's not about finding or seeking but about living in alignment with your heart?

What if it's not about finding any one person as much as finding your way back to yourself?

Give up the search. Give up the trying and find a place to just be.

Start with a clean slate. Start with where you are today.Continue Reading

Another Chance

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Fresh start ahead road sign concept for new year symbolizing making positive changes.
It's time for a fresh start.

Every New Year we’re given another chance.

To do something different. To clean the slate. To start fresh. To begin again.

And every year we resolve to do exactly this. To do things differently, to turn over a new leaf and do everything we didn’t do before.

We’re so full of good intentions, so full of hope. We’re determined to make this year “our year”.

Except that it rarely turns out this way.

Sure, we make small strides and little steps along the way, but it seldom (if ever) turns out the way we expected it to when we compare notes at the end of the year.Continue Reading

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