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4 Valuable Lessons 2020 Taught Me about Life, Love, and Happiness

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A beautiful woman is leaning on a railing against a sunset, disappointed she hasn't heard from her boyfriend.
At least we learned some important lessons this year.

I’ve gotten to know so many of you this year. Some for the first time, and others much more deeply than I had before.

Your stories, your heartbreaks, your dreams, your hopes, your plans – and the realities of this year that brought so many of them to an abrupt halt.

It’s been such an honor to share in your lives!

If it wasn’t exactly the year you wanted to have, with yet another chapter of your life closing with the same now familiar ending - another year alone - I hope my message today resonates with you.Continue Reading

Why it all feels so heavy (and how to make it light)

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A beautiful woman looks out over the ocean.
You were made to live in the light!

You've been telling me how heavy it all feels.

I hear you. I see you. And I'm here to tell you why and how to make it light again. Or maybe light for the first time in your life.

No, it's not just you. It's all of us.

We’ve learned to keep it all inside. That’s why we feel so heavy, so weighed down. We’ve always had to keep it all inside.

They taught us we couldn’t trust our feelings. We felt so much that it wasn’t a stretch to believe that we couldn't trust ourselves.

Unless we were pleasing.Continue Reading

What do YOU think makes a man commit to you?

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A beautiful woman is on a romantic date with a man.
Your answer to this question makes all the difference.

It's this part that's so telling.

I hear from women just like you every day. Saying they think it's about something they have to say or do differently. They think there's some secret answer that they haven't yet uncovered, and if they can just find that, they'll have him committing in no time.

I get it, because I went on the search for this, too. I tried all of it - everything- just to try to get my answer.

Is it this?

Play it cool. Be the cool girl.

Or this?

Act like you can take or leave him.

What about this?Continue Reading

Don't take what someone told you is your story and make it come true!

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A beautiful woman sids under a tree in autumn feeling sad and lonely.
Don't put this on yourself, Beautiful.

Instead of asking yourself what's wrong with you, or what you did or said wrong, or why you weren't good enough for him, there's something else you need to be asking instead. Who treats someone like this? Who withholds reassurance from someone vulnerable enough to ask for it?

What kind of guy does this?

You think it's you because that's what we're so programmed to believe - that it's because you said too much or the wrong thing at the wrong time. But why can't you communicate directly with someone you're getting to know, who's obviously giving you some indication he's interested or you wouldn't be here at all?

Ask yourself this; isn't there something wrong with a guy who responds to you by avoiding or ignoring you, instead of being honest with you? What does that say about him?

Don't put this on yourself, Beautiful. You're human.

No, you're not perfect. No, not everyone is going to be on the same page as you or want to be with you.Continue Reading

He ghosted me after I said I cared about him!

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A beautiful woman looks at her phone wondering why he suddenly disappeared.
Was it a mistake to let him know how I feel?

Our letter today comes from Tazz, who had some amazing sex with a man she met online and thought all was going great, until she made the "mistake" of telling him she cared about him and didn't want to see him hurt again.

Her Story:

I met a man online, met him a few times, had amazing sex with him, but after I told him I don't want to see him hurt again..as he is going through a divorce and trying to heal on the inside ... said he could take care of himself wanted to break from me for a bit and ghosted me.

He texted me last night he had a good day, went out on a date and missed me ... he is an amazing man and I messed up by telling him I worry about him...

I can't lose him but I'm not happy with his ghosting me either what should I do to bring him back???Continue Reading

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