You’re beginning to get this. This is your life, your time, your dream.
No more waiting. It’s in the living of your own beautiful life that you create for yourself that you’ll find everything you’re looking for, my beautiful friend.
And your time is now.
No more believing our cultural programming that's telling you not to. You’re starting to see this now.
It’s a mindset.
So here you are. You've got your list of dreams.
You've got a clear picture of what you want your life to look like.
You’re taking steps to make this all a reality. To create the life you want right now, without any more waiting around for someone to come and give you a ready-made life.
Now here’s the beautiful part of this: knowing your dreams, having this new passion for what you want to do with your life, is going to help you to know if someone is right for you.
Make sure you can share your dreams with him.
He’ll be supportive. He’ll be excited for you. He’ll encourage you. He’ll want to hear all about them.
And he’ll probably be inspired to share some of his own with you.
When you connect like this, when you find he has his own dreams and you can share and plan your dreams together, you’ll know he’s someone worth getting to know better.
Because what I didn't understand back when I was single that I absolutely understand now, is that you’re not just looking for someone to share your life with, you’re looking for someone to share your future life with. To share you dreams and plans with. Not just today, but every day of every life stage as you grow and learn and grow some more together.
Can you dream your dreams together? Can you make a plan for them together? Can you picture yourselves living a life that respects and supports dreaming together?
Those are the big questions, my beautiful friend; the ones that really matter. I always knew I was a dreamer, but I never knew that what I was really looking for was someone to dream with me.
And now, knowing what I do, I know that’s not just for some lucky few.
Dream big, my beautiful friend, and then make sure he can dream big with you.