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Why it all feels so heavy (and how to make it light)

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A beautiful woman looks out over the ocean.
You were made to live in the light!

You've been telling me how heavy it all feels.

I hear you. I see you. And I'm here to tell you why and how to make it light again. Or maybe light for the first time in your life.

No, it's not just you. It's all of us.

We’ve learned to keep it all inside. That’s why we feel so heavy, so weighed down. We’ve always had to keep it all inside.

They taught us we couldn’t trust our feelings. We felt so much that it wasn’t a stretch to believe that we couldn't trust ourselves.

Unless we were pleasing.Continue Reading

This Thanksgiving, Do THIS Instead!

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A beautiful woman looks out a window wondering why she is not strong.
It's time to let your feelings be felt.

If you’re being flooded with messages today telling you all the things you should be thankful for, and the LAST thing you feel right now is grateful, I’m here to tell you I see you, I hear you, and I feel every bit of what you’re going through today.

NOT feeling our feelings is the problem with so much of what’s gone wrong in our lives and I’m here to tell you that it’s okay if you don’t feel what everyone’s telling you you’re SUPPOSED to feel today.

It’s easy to feel grateful when you’re warm and cozy in your house with a husband or partner who loves you, surrounded by babies (or fur babies) who make your house feel like a home. It's easy to feel thankful when you’ve got enough money, a secure job, your health, and good friends and relatives who make you feel loved and supported.Continue Reading

Is It Worth It?

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Female hands holding a sand in form of the heart
It's often so hard to have our kind of hearts.

Is it worth it? Is it?

Every rejection. Every loss. Every devastating heartbreak.

You don’t just feel it. You feel it in every part of your being. You live it.

It doesn’t just hurt. It stings like nothing you’ve ever felt.

Until it happens again.

And you experience it all over again.

Is it ever worth it?

That’s the question we need the answer to. Because it doesn’t feel like it.

Give us something that shows having such sensitive hearts like ours are worth it. We need to know it is.Continue Reading

Becoming Unlost

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A beautiful woman is walking on the beach trying to become unlost.
You never thought you’d feel this lost.

Lost.

When it’s over. When the reality that this new place is worse than you thought it would be. When you long for the old reality that at least you knew.

How else to describe it except for one word … Lost

No matter whether you were prepared or not, can you ever really be prepared?Continue Reading

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Hi, I'm Jane Garapick. I'm here to provide inspiration, support and empowerment on the journey to true love. I know what it’s like to have a broken heart, a broken dream, and a broken you. And I know for a fact, that your dreams can still come true! Read more...
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