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My partner wants to rekindle friendship with his ex and I don't know what to do!

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Unhappy couple after fight not talking to each other
He was devastated when she left him.

Today's letter comes from one of the beautiful members in our community, Kate, who's at a loss to know what to do when her partner announced he wants to rekindle his friendship with his ex. I can imagine how most of us would feel about this; let's see if we can help Kate out here, too!

Her Story:

Dear Jane,

I’m struggling with the thought of my partner reconnecting with his ex.

When we met over ten years ago he was still upset for over two years occasionally about the way she cheated, ended their relationship and threw him out.Continue Reading

He Cheated on Me, Now He Says I Need to Let the Past Go and Trust Him

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The word trust spelled out in letter cubes.
He says I have trust issues or insecurities.

Holly's writing in today for some advice on what she should do about a guy she can't trust. He keeps trying to tell her it's her insecurities and inability to trust him that are the problem, not anything about his own behavior.

I don't think she's alone in this scenario and I have a feeling you're going to have a lot to say to her, as I did here.

Her story:

Hi Jane,

So my boyfriend and I have dated for over 2 1/2 years in total. It’s been an interesting relationship to say the least. He is a mechanic and used to work for my dad so I knew him since I was like 15 years old. He is 8 years old than I am.Continue Reading

I Had My Suspicions So I Started to Check the Website and He Had Been Active Daily

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Man is cheating on his girlfriend texting the other woman while she sleeps in bed next to him.
He's always on WhatsApp late at night.

Our gorgeous friend Rachel is asking for our help.

Here's what she wrote:

Please help.

I had been talking to this guy for the past 3 months online, then we met up and had 3 wonderful dates. He had to go away to work for 5 weeks in another country, but we stayed in touch for the first 3 weeks until I noticed that he had been spending a lot of time on WhatsApp.

I had my suspicions that he was talking to other girls, so I started to check the website and he had been active daily.

I asked him about this, and he said he’s not speaking to anybody else and would like to get to know me better when he’s home. Anyway, this continued for over a week, but I was noticing he was on WhatsApp late at night and on a dating site.Continue Reading

There Always Seems To Be Someone Else And It Just Pains Me

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A beautiful woman is upset because she keeps getting dumped.
It’s like he wants this dual life and wants to be with me and someone else.

This week, our letter comes from one of our beautiful sisters who has asked to remain anonymous. I've called her Scarlet and her story is one of constant betrayal.

Here's what she wrote:

Hello!

I have been reading a few posts and I’mjust anxious to hear what you think about my situation. 

I met this guy 2 years ago and we really clicked.

We hit it off from the beginning and I got super close to his family and everything was perfect. I would say we’re both very jealous people and had a few bumps in the road.

No cheating, just simple things - if a guy contacted me or a girl contacted him, things got eerie.

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Am I Crazy to Think He’s With Someone Else?

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A beautiful woman looking down sadly, trying to let go and move on.
I feel like he wants to leave me.

Beautiful Lara is wondering if her man is seeing someone else behind her back (her letter has been edited for readability):

Here's her story:

I’ve been with a man for 4 years. We used to laugh, go out together, be intimate. He would communicate.

He used to spoil me. Now he doesn’t.

Now he comes over at 11 PM, and all he wants to is watch movies. He doesn’t text, rarely calls. He used to come over on Friday’s, but now I often don’t see him all weekend.

I’ve never been to his house, I’ve only met 3 of his close friends, and I’ve never been invited to any of his family events.Continue Reading

Is He The One?

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Angry girlfriend shouting at boyfriend showing text messages from other woman on his mobile phone.
My heart believes he's the one, but in my mind I know it's not right.

I receive so many letters asking this question. The stories may be different, from women from all different walks of life, all different ages and from all different parts of the world, but the question is always the same.

Is he the one?

It’s easy for me. After all, without the emotional attachment, I’m able to hold an objective view that you can’t see when you’re so emotionally invested.

But there’s one thing that I use to make that assessment more than anything else. What you say.

When you tell me you love him BUT. When you tell me he could be the one EXCEPT.

When you have all the reasons he could be but then in your words you say the one thing I’m waiting for, you tell me everything. Everything.

That’s where you need to go, Beautiful.

There. Right there.Continue Reading

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