Finding your YOU that leads to TWO
There’s a word that keeps coming up.
On my calls. In my inbox. In the heartbreaking comments I read from you here on the blog and on social media.
I hear it when you tell me things like:
No one sees like you.
No one hears like you.
No one thinks like you.
No one feels like you.
You see what everyone else says to just ignore. Because you can’t ignore it!
You hear what everyone says is just you picking up on something that isn’t there. It doesn’t go away.Continue Reading
You have a line.
We all do.
I don't know where yours is, but somewhere along the way, you'll find it.
It hasn't been crossed yet or you would know, because something would be different. Nothing would be the same.
It wakes us up. It brings our excuses to a halt. It brings out a side of us we've never known before.
It's your boundary. Your line in the sand. The one thing you won't stand for.
You won't know you have it until it's so clearly right there in front of you.
And then, even if you don't think you have the strength or resolve to stand, you will. Even if the conscious part of you can't do it, your subconscious will.Continue Reading
You've always known.
What everyone says don't worry about. What everyone tries to shame you about. What everyone calls you crazy for.
It's actually the opposite, isn't it?
You're the one who's always known what's really going on.
You knew before he left.
You knew before he cheated.
You knew before he checked out.
You knew.Continue Reading
Who benefits from you believing you have to be perfect to be loved? Who gets rewarded when you hold the belief that you have to be something different than who you already are to "get" a guy, especially one of the good ones?
Who?
Is it you?
No, of course not.
These beliefs only keep you striving, trying too hard, discontented, lost, constantly searching for how to be better, different, and more perfect than who you already are.
We spend all our time, energy and money trying to gain that illusion of perfection that we don't even realize is only an illusion because we believe if we finally get it right, everything else will suddenly fall into place.
All those messages we've been told from the time we were old enough to read or watch TV or be marketed to in so many different ways, they've all told us the same thing.Continue Reading
You were never supposed to fit in.
Not the way you thought.
You with your one of a kind way of seeing the world.
You with your own unique essence of being in the world. No, you were never supposed to fit in.
You know why you feel like there must be something wrong with you?
Because everyone's been trying to get you to conform and fit in the way they wanted you to your entire life.
Now imagine you trying to go against the grain and resist that when that's all you've ever had reinforced for you.
Not easy, is it? Continue Reading
Wherever the old year finds you tonight, wherever the new year finds you tomorrow, promise me you'll remember one thing.
You have nothing to prove.
NOTHING.
Not to anyone, and especially not to the ones you think you do.
The ones who want you will want you.
The ones who like you will like you.
And the ones who love you will absolutely love you - just the way you are!
Your work is only to learn how to tell the difference so that you never, EVER have to go through any more heartbreak like you've already been through. Because it's been enough already.
We're not talking about a few minor tweaks, we're talking about the essence of you!
Never forget that part, Beautiful.Continue Reading
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