Finding your YOU that leads to TWO
The Inspiration category contains posts intended to inspire you to be your best in both love and in life. To remind you that you are beautiful, that you have worth, that you deserve the best that life and love have to offer. The Inspiration category also includes a collection of various poems, stories, etc. that have given me inspiration over the years that I'm now sharing with you.
Kindness.
Gentleness.
Compassion.
Empathy.
Actions.
Not shallow words that mean nothing without the behavior to accompany them.
Look around you.
Are these what you experience from your lovers, your boyfriends, your girl friends, your family, all these ones you give so much of your time, your energy, your own kindness and gentleness and compassion and empathy to?Continue Reading
Yes, you.
You’re the one I’m talking to.
Who do you think you are?
Who do you think you are that you have a right to be here, a right to get what your beautiful heart desires, a right to see your dreams come true? Who do you think you are to have what someone else has, to get what they’ve got, to talk like you do, to think like you do, to express yourself the way you do, to walk like you do, to carry yourself like you do, to do what you do? Who?
Sound familiar?
These are the words that define you. These are what you’re allowed to do.
Making. Trying. Striving. Hoping. Sometimes begging. Longing. Cajoling. Pleading. Often begging.
But these ones - Come sparkle. Come dance. Come thrive. Come live. With me. With all of us.
Not these.Continue Reading
I haven’t been able to let go of a coaching session I had last week.
I saw her so clearly.
Like an old soul, a deeply feeling soul. A beautiful soul that touches the earth and feels everything it encounters.
Her obstacles were practical, logical, tangible, and undeniably so.
I couldn’t put a finger on it … yet. Until she revealed to me that this way I saw her so very clearly, the description I provided her with what I was seeing when I looked at her, when I heard her, when I truly listened, was all news to her.Continue Reading
I’m hearing you tonight.
Another disappointment. One more loss. More hopes dashed. And it feels like nothing has changed, and never will.
Where do you go from here?
How do you get back hope when summoning up any kind of hope at all was already too much to ask?Continue Reading
You say “no”.
You say “not me”.
You laugh. You smirk. You dig in.
But what you don’t see is that you’re exactly the one I’m trying to reach.
What you don’t see is that you’re precisely the one I’ve been looking for. It’s your cynicism that speaks volumes to me. Instead of pushing me away, you make me want to run to you even more.
See, I know how this works.
I know you think you do. I know you think you’ve got this all figured out. But what I see behind your words, behind every single one of your well-rehearsed defenses, gives you away.Continue Reading
You say you're done with all the rest.
You say you're ready to find the love you've been searching for, like, forever.
But do you really mean it?
It's time to start living like you mean what you say!
No more excuses, no more putting your love life on hold while the days slip away.
Yes, it's going to require some work on your part. But this is one where you set the pace. How quickly you want this to happen for you is completely up to you!
It's time to start paying attention – really listening - to that self-talk you do every day. Start noticing everything you do and say that isn't the truth about you. Everything that's someone else's version of you, someone else's story that's been put on you.Continue Reading
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