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Is Finding Mr. Right Like Winning the Lottery?

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A beautiful woman is holding a lottery ticket symbolizing her odds of finding her Mr. Right.
Open your heart to drastically improve your odds.

If finding your Mr. Right seems about as likely as buying the winning ticket, think again.

I remember having many conversations with my girlfriends about what we thought was the statistical likelihood of finding our very own Mr. Right.

You see, like many of us, back then I believed there was only one single Mr. Right meant for me; my soul mate; the one.

And after looking at our ever growing lists of must haves, and how many men in any given population would meet those criteria, we all came to the conclusion that our odds of meeting him were not greater than about one in ten million.

It was depressing, and rightly so.Continue Reading

Space For Something New

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Some changes look negative on the surface but you will soon realize that space is being created in your life for something new to emerge.I love buttercups, so when I saw this one growing up through a crack in our back patio, I just had to take a photo of it. It absolutely amazes me that something so beautiful can grow, completely on it's own, in such  difficult circumstances. All it needed was the opportunity.

It reminded me of these equally beautiful words from Eckhart Tolle, which I dug up from the inspiration box to share with you.

So, for all of you out there who have suffered through a heart wrenching break-up (which is just about all of us), just know that all endings, whether of our own choosing or not, create space in our lives for something new, something better, to begin.

We just have to allow ourselves to be open to it.

Finding Your Best Self

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Concept of a woman freeing herself from the chains of bondage
It begins with this.

We hear it all the time: be your best self!  But what does that really mean?  How do we be our best selves?  We may spend a small fortune on a new wardrobe of all of the latest trendy styles, buy a membership to the best fitness club, or get a sporty new car.  But we still feel the same.  We might have changed some things but we don’t feel any different.  We’re still our same old selves. So why don’t we feel any different?  Because that’s not what it’s about.Continue Reading

You Deserve to be Loved!

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A beautiful woman is being hugged
We all do.

We all have inherent belief systems, as a result of our early programming, that greatly affect us throughout our lives into adulthood. For a variety of reasons, one of the most prevalent is that we don’t deserve to be loved, and it's this particular one that has the most negative effect on the quality of the relationships that we have.

It’s the belief system that you might not even realize is playing in the back of your mind, in your subconscious, as it subtly reminds you day after day that you are bad, there's something wrong with you, don’t deserve to be happy, and, worst of all, you don’t deserve to be loved!Continue Reading

Improve Your Dating by Changing One Thing

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A beautiful woman is on a date, smiling from across the table.
If you can avoid this one huge mistake, your dating life will improve dramatically.

I made this mistake throughout most of my dating life, as did most of my friends – in fact I think nearly all of us have.

You see, I looked at dating as serving one purpose, and one purpose only: To start a relationship with a guy that I thought could be Mr. Right.

You're probably thinking right now "But that is the purpose of dating, right?" Well, yes and no.

Let me explain.Continue Reading

3 Ways to Know He's a Keeper

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A beautiful woman holding up three fingers indicating 3 signs he's a keeper.
These 3 things better be at the top of your "must have" list.

All too often we overlook the three most important essentials of a real relationship.

Looking back, these seem so obvious to me, but it wasn’t so clear back when I was dating.

Of all the qualities I was looking for in a guy, of all my “must haves” on my quest for finding my own Mr. Right, I didn’t pay nearly enough attention to the three things that I now realize are what actually really matter.

We all have our own lists of “must haves”, but these three should be at the top of everyone’s list.Continue Reading

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