I get it. I used to do it to.
We all think about what we need to do to get his attention. Sure, we think about what we want in a guy, but as soon as we meet a guy like that, our thoughts turn to trying to figure out how we can catch him.
As in, he's such a great catch. We try to be sexy. We try to be hip, or cool, or loving or whatever other adjective we think might get him to pick us. To choose us over the others.
We get so caught up in thinking about him that we forget that there’s a whole lot more to this story - the part of the story that’s all about you!
You see, this isn't all about him. We've all been programmed by our culture, the media, and our families and friends to believe it's all about being desirable.
We spend all of our time focusing on what we can do or be to make him like us, make him choose us, make him fall in love with us and make him want to spend the rest of his life with us.
But we’re missing something here!
You.
This is about knowing who you are, and knowing your worth.Continue Reading
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