You have a line.
We all do.
I don't know where yours is, but somewhere along the way, you'll find it.
It hasn't been crossed yet or you would know, because something would be different. Nothing would be the same.
It wakes us up. It brings our excuses to a halt. It brings out a side of us we've never known before.
It's your boundary. Your line in the sand. The one thing you won't stand for.
You won't know you have it until it's so clearly right there in front of you.
And then, even if you don't think you have the strength or resolve to stand, you will. Even if the conscious part of you can't do it, your subconscious will.You'll say enough.
Even if the words can't find their way out, your actions will.
Maybe at a time like this when there are no more excuses to be given because there's no where to go and nothing else to do but show up, you'll find that line right there in front of you.
We usually trip over it. It usually catches us by surprise.
But make no mistake, Beautiful, it's coming. You're going to find yours. And with it, your voice. With it, your strength.
And with it, your life. ❤️
Anything else I can remind you of today? Let me know in the comments below - I'm here for you!
This is beautiful and a powerful message. You have no idea. I needed to read that at the exact moment that I did. Thank you.
I'm so glad, Angelica. Love that the timing was right on time for you! So much love.
I headed over heels with this man I love him deeply but I dont know if he loves me or not we been seeing each other for about a year on and off he was deeply hurt by his wife his birthday is 5/25/66 and my is 12/18/59 my question is will he ever comment
Jane,
My my, I don’t know when or how I joined to receive your email but, THANK YOU!
What you said to me today was soooo
Right On the mark in my life Right Now.
Today it’s a gift-
So glad it resonated with you, Sandi. I never know who's listening until moments like this when I get the chance to meet you!
I love this letter / article! Thanks, Jane! This came at such a perfect time and really struck a cord. I have reread it about four times already!
So glad, Audrey. Love hearing this from you!
I live in the US and have been communicating with a man that lives in Canada, for a month and a half. We obviously haven’t met in person, due to the pandemic, but we have FaceTimed. I am extremely attracted to him, but I’m seeing red flags. I’m struggling to break it off with him because I am afraid ... afraid there won’t be anyone else, afraid that maybe he is the one and I’m just being too sensitive because I was in an abusive marriage. I’m really struggling.
Have respect and love for yourself 1st. I am experiencing similar. You have value in this world on your own. Don’t settle for what is not acceptable for you. Your beliefs, your boundaries.
Whenever I hear the words "maybe I'm just being too sensitive", that's always the biggest red flag of all for me, Stephanie. That alone deserves a pause to check in with yourself and see what's there. Your sensitivity is your beautiful superpower! Yes, it can route us in many directions, but it always deserves to be listened to and taken seriously. If there are more red flags you're seeing, take them all seriously. It may be hard to pause now to see what they're trying to tell you, but it's going to only get more difficult later. Why the struggle?
I feel so hopeless right now
I’m praying for you, Lori 🙏🏻💜
How can I help you, Lori? What do you need?