Isn't that how you feel?
Everything already feels so hard, and then you have someone who isn't on the same page as you when it matters most.
No matter how hard you think it is now, it doesn't get any easier the longer you wait for someone to come around and change when the warning signs are there if you could trust yourself enough to see them.
Life is messy. Relationships aren't fantasies.
Who you are and who he is are products of years of programming - mostly the subconscious kind neither one of you are even aware of. Until the honeymoon is over and you're only left with reality, because the beginning wasn't who he really was.
At least not in a way he could indefinitely sustain.
It's why we excuse away those little behaviors that are actually the seeds of huge red flags. It's why we let those small things we don't want to make a mountain of slide, because of our own inherent confirmation biases.Continue Reading
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