Why do we do the chasing at all? Why are we still chasing him? Why can't we seem to stop, no matter how much we know we should?
Because we're scared.
If we don't chase him, we're scared he won't chase us. And then at least this way, we can feel in control, like we're actually doing something.
But there's a problem with this kind of thinking. Because when we do this, we don't allow him to do what he's biologically programmed to do (what he actually wants to do) – chase you!
We miss this part because of our own fear. We don't give him a chance to chase us because we're not sure he will.Continue Reading
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