Our beautiful friend, Ashley, is concerned that having sex on the first date with a guy she's crazy about may have ruined her chances for a real, long lasting relationship with him.
Here's her story:
Hi Jane,
Long story short, I am crazy about this guy I've been seeing for a week and half. lol.
He lives and hour and half away.
I met him at a DJ class he was teaching a few months ago. He gave me his business card and I emailed him about DJ stuff. He responded then I heard nothing from him until 2 weeks ago.
He invited me to go to a DJ cafe with him in his town. So I went we hit it off, he was a gentleman and paid for everything.
We ended up having sex that night.
And we've been texting ever since. He texts me good morning and text throughout the day. He came to my town to celebrate my birthday with me on Saturday.
I know it's kind of soon, but I want more out of this relationship, I want him to be my boyfriend. It hasn't even been a full 2 weeks yet though, and I'm nervous that having a sexual relationship with him so soon ruined my chance.
What should I do?
- Ashley
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