A letter from our beautiful friend, Vicki, who has fallen for a guy who seems to be battling commitment phobia (sound familiar?).
Her story:
Hi Jane,
I've been following your website for several months, and amazed by your laser focus insights. So, now its my turn to reach out to you.
I've been dating him for three months.
He's a fascinating man, we can talk for hours and he compared us to Plato's Symposium - split souls who have found each others missing half. He says we're similar in many ways. He owns a large business and has a packed schedule. I was very busy the first month, so I only accepted a few of his date requests.
After a month and four dates, I told him I was used to long term committed relationships, didn't like a casual dating, but was seeing several guys (no sex) until something clicked.
He said it was too early for a commitment, he likes me "more each time", and lets see where it goes. We started seeing each other on weekends (would stay at his home) and one weekday night.
Every Tuesday, he would attend the opera (corporate box seats for four), but never invited me.Continue Reading
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