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Remember When They Used to Ask You This?

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A woman holding a dandelion in her hand blowing it away making a wish, signifying letting go.
It’s time for a new question.

When you were a little girl, they used to ask you, “What do you want to be when you grow up?”

You had so many answers back then.

But no one asks you anymore.

When they stopped asking, you stopped asking. You stopped dreaming. You stopped planning. You stopped hoping. You started looking back instead of forward. You started believing another voice.

Not the one of hope, but the one of the opposite of hope.

Hopelessness.

They convinced you you’d lived your best life already.

That you’re too late.Continue Reading

Do You Remember What It’s Like to Dream a Dream?

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Beautiful young woman with long hair lying on the grass
Come dream with me, Beautiful!

I haven’t been able to let go of a coaching session I had last week.

I saw her so clearly.

Like an old soul, a deeply feeling soul. A beautiful soul that touches the earth and feels everything it encounters.

Her obstacles were practical, logical, tangible, and undeniably so.

I couldn’t put a finger on it … yet. Until she revealed to me that this way I saw her so very clearly, the description I provided her with what I was seeing when I looked at her, when I heard her, when I truly listened, was all news to her.Continue Reading

Why You're Never EVER Meant to Give Up Hope

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A beautiful woman looks at the sky with a rainbow in the distance symbolizing hope.
You're not meant to let go of the hope!

I'm beginning to think no one's ever seen you.

Not for who you really are. Not for all you have to offer.

You've never let the ones who can see you have the chance to see you.

That's what this is really about.

You have no idea.

Really, you don't.

These ones who give you only a fleeting glimpse of yourself, are the same ones that are never capable of being anything more than what works for them. And that's why it's so brief.

Just long enough to give you a taste, and then it's gone.

It's no wonder you're consumed with how to get it back.Continue Reading

I Don't Want to Be Hurt Again

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A woman and man are experiencing a break up and she doesn't want to be hurt again.
His mixed signals give me hope we'll get back together.

Our beautiful friend Yuri has been in a relationship with a guy who now says he just wants to be friends, but he's giving her mixed signals which is giving her false hope.

Here's her email:

Dear Jane,

My boyfriend broke up with me in October 2014.

He first said that he wanted to take a break to be with himself because he had some issues then three weeks later he broke up with me. I was really sad but I managed to remain calm. But a week after the breakup he started calling me again and wanted to always hang out with me.

I went along because I was emotionally too dependent on him. As days went by I grew uncomfortable because I knew that even though we were like a couple he still didn't consider me his girlfriend. I decided to speak to him about it and he told me that he was still having some issues and that if I wanted to I could be with him because in the future we will get back together.

Again I went along with what he said hoping that we will get back together soon. But then I noticed a repeated cycle taking place.Continue Reading

Hope

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A beautiful woman holds her hands out in the shape of a heart while watching the sunset at the beach.
It's what keeps us going.

We’re glued to the screen.

Wanting to know it worked, that it’s real. They’re getting married. Going on a fabulous honeymoon. Going to start a family and live happily ever after.

The whole package, the real deal.

Think Trista and Ryan of the Bachelorette fame. Think of our obsession with Kate and Prince William. With Jennifer Anniston and others like her.

With movie stars – who’s getting married, who’s not.

We're so sad when it ends because it means it can end for us, too. But when it’s happening, there’s always the hope.Continue Reading

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