Finding your YOU that leads to TWO
The posts in the Finding Love category relate to bringing love into your life, whether you are currently single, dating, or in a relationship. This category includes topics such as finding yourself, knowing what you want, living your life, etc.
I don't know what you're going through today, but I've got a reminder for you of something I used to always forget along the way, especially on my least hopeful days.
All it takes is one.
One person.
And I'm not just talking about some guy.
I'm talking about something you can control. Something you have all the say in.
I'm talking about you.
Someone's going to wrap their arms around you and hold you like you've never been held before, Beautiful.Continue Reading
We say too much.
They pull back, they pull away.
We stop talking.
We've learned.
We don't say enough.
They call us boring.
We start saying more.
We've learned.
But what have we really learned except how to pay even closer attention than we already do, to what they say, what they don't say, how they respond, how they don't respond?
To the high self-esteemed among us, what they learn is something very different from what we learn.Continue Reading
I've got a question you'll want to answer right now, Beautiful.
It matters because it's at the root of all your relationships, whether it's conscious or not, and it's past time we get you to the bottom of this mystery of why you keep finding yourself in the relationships you do!
What was the first belief you held about love, whether you realized it or not?
Love conquers all?
Love is only for some select few?
Love is blind?
Love hurts?
I've been studying relationships and the question of why we choose who we do long enough to see a direct correlation between what we believe about love and who we find ourselves in relationships with, whether you even realize you hold these beliefs or not.Continue Reading
That's it.
That's the most important question you can answer that's going to bring you the results you're looking for.
Every day, you tell me your stories of why you do the things you do, why you can't stop doing those things, why what you believe is just the way it is and why you've given up on hoping it's ever going to be any different for you.
I listen. And then I ask you that most important question you NEED to answer before ANYTHING is going to be different for you.
Why?
Why are you too old?
Why are you so unique that you're going to be the one person that never finds anyone while everyone else does?Continue Reading
Our answers may seem illogical to anyone else, but to us they’re so real. The more we answer with them, the more they become our truth.
It doesn’t matter if someone can point out why we’re wrong or why the evidence points to the contrary. We have the proof.
I’ll never find anyone.
I’ve already tried everything.
I’m too old.
I’m too _______.
I started a coaching session with a woman yesterday with the same question I've got for you.
Like most of us who've been here, she's got a guy she's hearing less and less from and is struggling to get over him once and for all.
I knew this was going to be a long session and I wanted to get to the heart of the matter to get her some relief right away, so I narrowed it down to one single question whose answer stood out as soon as she told me her story. I needed her to make this connection so she could see the significance of it, too.
What is the one skill you feel you're lacking? Or, put another way, what is the one thing you wish you could do that would make you feel so much better right now?Continue Reading
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