I'm speaking to every one of you today who's ever been left by some guy who was NEVER good enough for you.
Stop with the "I wasn't good enough", "He's thrown me away", and everything else we say.
No, you haven't been discarded, girl. Don't accept that as your verdict!
You were saved from being with someone who would NEVER have been the one for you unless you were someone else. So choose to either change to be that someone else - or embrace who you already are and accept that you can't make someone want to be with you who isn't looking for you!
This isn't a "prove your worth" game with all the wrong ones; it's a "find someone who's actually compatible with you because he's looking for someone just like you" reality.
Not a game, not a challenge, not a distraction from doing your own work. It's a beautiful life if you choose to stop looking at it in these old no-longer-serving-you ways!
Okay?
Love,
Jane
Tell me you got this message loud and clear in the comments, girl. I see you. I've felt your pain. And no, he still doesn't get to discard you. You were saved for something far better than him!
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