What can you live with?
Whatever he's doing or isn't doing; whatever you want him to do that he can't do, you're not going to change him.
As much as you want him to change, to make a commitment to you, to do something different, the reality is that you are not going to change him and no amount of loving him is going to change him.
So this ultimately comes down to you.
It's time to ask yourself some tough questions.
What are you willing to put up with? What is he worth to you? What does having him in your life on these terms – his terms – mean to you?
Would you rather have him in your life as he is, not as you want him to be, but exactly as he is, if it means keeping him in your life, or do you need that commitment from him or whatever else you want from him more than him?Continue Reading
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