Finding your YOU that leads to TWO
You know that guy you used to have? The one you lost? The one you think you were too much for, too needy with, or not enough of what he actually wanted you to be?
Yeah, that one.
He's gone now, right?
And you're sitting here, going back over every last conversation in your head. Every text, every message, every nuance. Until the very last one.Continue Reading
Our letter this week is from Hope, who wrote to me about her pattern of getting dumped every year. She gets the same reasons every time and is beginning to wonder if she's just unlovable even though she's still so young. She doesn't feel that way.
Did you ever feel that way? This is so familiar to me, it was like looking in a mirror as I read her words. I hope you find my response to be helpful to you as well. Here's what she had to say.
I am 24. I know this is young, but almost every year since I was 17 I have been dumped for exactly the same reasons "the spark is gone", "just don't love you anymore", "just not feeling it anymore".
It's becoming embarrassing to tell my friends that I have been dumped yet again especially when so many of them have been in long term relationships.
I always ask them why and they always say the same thing "you haven't done anything", "you're amazing", "it's me, not you", "I promise you have done nothing".Continue Reading
We're freeing you today, Girl. We're taking the blame off you for a change.
We're starting new, with a clean slate, without repeating the past.
We start by freeing you from all the "shoulds" that overwhelm you so you can't see what you actually need to see to do. We start there because that's everything.
THEN you can take responsibility for what's yours - and give back the responsibility for what was never yours.Continue Reading
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