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This is how you'll know if you're meant to be with someone

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This is how you'll know - for sure!

You: But I just know we're meant to be together!

Me: Know how you'll know if you're meant to be with someone?

Because they'll be there with you.

They'll be there for you. They'll show you with their actions and behavior that they actually want to be with you.

Not just empty words and promises they can never live up to.

There won't be any doubt. You won't be trying to figure them out.

You won't have to. They'll want you to know how they feel!

In fact, they wouldn't ever want you to doubt how they feel because - and here's the kicker - they will actually care about you and your feelings.

Yes. That's right. They will actually CARE about how you feel.

Got this? Good. Because that's how you'll know. And girl, you will absolutely know!

Love,

Jane

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I found out he's married. Should I leave him?

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Couple not talking after a fight on the sofa in living room at home
He said he was single!

Tina wrote to me about a man she's in love with who also happens to be married. Whether you've ever found yourself in a similar situation or just have a response to this one, I'm sure you'll have something you want her to know.

Her Email:

Hi Jane,

I'm been in love with a married man for over a year now. I found out that he is married but he said he was single.  We have said "I love you" to each other. I'm not sure what to do.  I'm not sure if he really loves his wife or not.  Should I leave him?

TinaContinue Reading

He asked me to be patient because he's not ready for a relationship

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A beautiful woman feels sad because she feels she was used.
He says he's in a transition phase.

Our letter this week comes from Claire. She's dating a guy who is asking her to be patient with him because he's not ready for more of a relationship. Sound familiar?

Here's what she wrote:

Hi Jane,

In your video, you mention maintaining  a playful distance.. what does that  look like?

I'm working on my own triggers & have been guilty of chasing before. (too much masculine energy !)

Dating a new guy(someone I met years ago) but he's in a transition phase after a toxic relationship.  He asked me to be patient.  Not my strongest attribute.Continue Reading

Something You Need Right Now

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A beautiful woman sits on a beach looking sad because her ex has moved on.
I want to change this for you today.

I love meeting you and hearing your stories.

Most of the women I work with are some of the most beautiful, successful, extraordinary women I've ever met who are all carrying around with them a secret they don't want anyone to know.

Their secret?

They don't feel that strong.

More often than not, they're crying behind their smiles.

Life hasn't been what it was supposed to be for them.

Sure, they're got a lot to show for their time here so far. And yes, they've had all kinds of experiences and accomplished all kinds of things along the way.Continue Reading

How do I make him see I'm his one and only?

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Beautiful brunette woman thinking, tired, wondering if she's the one with commitment issues.
I put so much into this relationship, but I don't want to pressure him.

Ever noticed that the men who complain the most about drama in their relationships are the ones who bring it on themselves and project it onto you?

This fits Cami's story perfectly. Read on as she shares her story, looking for some advice on what to do.

Her Story:

Hi Jane,

My boyfriend and I have been together just over 2 years. We have had a little on and off again stuff. We are from the same small community and so his ex wife and I are familiar with each other (she was my teenage son and daughter’s 4th grade teacher and I played softball with her in the summers growing up).Continue Reading

Doors

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Many home white door open in cloudy sky
Open the one that's right for you.

I've been talking about this a lot on my calls lately.

That's right. Doors.

Like that door you keep trying so hard to open?

You know, the one you keep pounding on that STILL won't open, no matter what you do.

Well, what's behind it isn't yours!

Go knock on another door. And another. Don't keep wasting your time.

If it's not opening, it's not a sign to try harder, to be more, to do more, to make it the mountain you choose to die on out of principle.

It's not meant to be!

The one that opens? Fling it open with arms wide open, Girl.

THAT'S the one for you! ❤️

Love,

Jane

I know someone needed this today. Let me know in the comments if it was you!

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