Finding your YOU that leads to TWO
Ten years is a long time to be dating someone without a commitment. It's never something we set out to do, but in the case of Anne, it's where she's found herself.
Read on to hear her story, and my response, then let her know what YOU think she should do!
Hi Jane,
I've been with a guy for 10 years. There's lots of drama.
Every time I find that he's seeing some one else, he swears he's only flirting and nothing happened with them.
I'm 54 and he is 49.Continue Reading
That's it.
That's the most important question you can answer that's going to bring you the results you're looking for.
Every day, you tell me your stories of why you do the things you do, why you can't stop doing those things, why what you believe is just the way it is and why you've given up on hoping it's ever going to be any different for you.
I listen. And then I ask you that most important question you NEED to answer before ANYTHING is going to be different for you.
Why?
Why are you too old?
Why are you so unique that you're going to be the one person that never finds anyone while everyone else does?Continue Reading
Our answers may seem illogical to anyone else, but to us they’re so real. The more we answer with them, the more they become our truth.
It doesn’t matter if someone can point out why we’re wrong or why the evidence points to the contrary. We have the proof.
I’ll never find anyone.
I’ve already tried everything.
I’m too old.
I’m too _______.
Nikki's writing to me today about challenges she's experienced around her friendships with other women. She's looking for some advice and I've got some for her! See if this is something you can relate to as well.
Dear Jane,
Thank you for this website. Every article you have written has applied to me. I really needed to read ALMOST ALL your articles today. I am "that single girl". Smart, attractive, nice funny, great job, etc. but can't keep a man or friends for that matter.
I have been the girl to stay in bad relationships for fear of being alone, compromising myself to fit in with people that did not honor me. I am also the single girl at all family gathering. Yes, even the young ones in the family, are married and popping out babies.Continue Reading
The biggest breakthroughs in my coaching practice happen when you realize what you actually need, not just what you're so used to saying you want.
I lived almost my entire single life saying I wanted one thing when I really wanted something very different, so I'm really good at helping you see these things when you can't see them for yourself. Usually, I end up confirming what you know in your heart you've needed all along, but the way it looks when it finds you can be very confusing because it's not what you expected it to be.
See if this makes it any clearer for you.Continue Reading
The subject line of her email said it all. "I am incapable of a successful relationship."
I'm answering Tina's email on the blog today because I hear from so many of you who've come to the same conclusion and you've all but given up any hope of changing this. You're in the right place because I find hope out of hopelessness despite what you can't yet see, so stay with me here. If you've ever felt like this, I've got so much hope for you today!
Hi Jane,Continue Reading
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