"You're just too nice for me, I was always afraid you were too nice for me. I like you so much, but I didn't feel it strong enough, something was missing."
My blood was boiling before I had even finished reading her full comment on my website.
No, don't turn it back on her. Don't make it about her being too nice. That's a bunch of BS!
You, (insert the name here of whoever's said the same thing to you) - this isn't about her, it's about you!
You're the coward. You're the one who won't do your own work.
You're the one who refuses to wake up from your own convenient programming that insists it's all about finding the "perfect" woman and that's the piece that's missing and then you'll magically have this complete perfect relationship that will make everything so easy for you!
No, don't hide behind that BS! That's NOT the way relationships work.
You don't get to be with someone for 6 months who's "too nice", afraid she's too nice the whole time, while you're playing the field, sleeping with someone else - "but it doesn't mean anything" - and then dropping the bomb that you "don't feel it strong enough."Continue Reading
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