Years ago, I began my blog writing about the link between the emotionally unavailable men we choose and our own emotionally unavailable fathers.
And while so many of you found your answers in exactly that connection, there was another group of women finding their way here as well.
For them, this wasn't at all about their fathers. It was about their .... mothers.
The first one I chalked up to an anomaly. A few more and I still thought it was rare. But the more women I worked with, the more I realized there was something here I had to explore further. Book after book and article after article, combined with in-person interviews confirmed for me what my real-life experience had suggested.
It wasn’t just our emotionally unavailable dads who had created this pattern of attraction as normal in our lives; for many of us, it was our mothers.Continue Reading
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