It's Christmas. And it's been awhile since you've heard from me. I've been down with the worst flu I think I've ever had, and we've traveled 14 hours on the road to celebrate Christmas with extended family, which is why I haven't posted in while. But although my energies have been focused elsewhere for the past week, you have all been in my thoughts and my heart along the way.
I wanted to let you all know that I am so grateful for each and every one of you who allow me to inspire, support and encourage you, and make whatever small contribution I can toward making your life and this world a better place for everyone.
My wish for you this year is the same wish I always have; that you will realize just how much worth you really do have, how much you deserve and that you will know that what you attract into your life is all about how much you really feel this about yourself and understand that it is true! And in believing in yourself this way, in understanding that you really do have so much to offer, so much to give, you will show someone how to treat you, and you let them know what is required of them to be in a relationship with you.
Because this Christmas, wherever you are, whatever you're going through, whatever you happen to be feeling right now, this moment is about you. And what you make of it, what you choose to do with it, is entirely up to you. You, my beautiful friend, are worth so much and deserve all the best love and life have to offer you. May you see that love reflected back at you wherever you are today.
Merry Christmas!
Love,
Jane
Thank you for your contribution to our awesome + healthy + true love relationships... Yes, you are helping so much... Way more than you can imagine, just with your excellent posts... Get well soon, Jane!
Thanks for your kind words and sentiments, Monica 🙂
Thank you for the support and for taking the time to be a true friend. I Know i would not have made it without it. I am now eleven months out of my last toxic relationship and working on myself. Although i am not yet where i should be i praise God that i an growing stronger everyday . I value peace and rest like never before.
I would like to take this opportunity to thank you for taking the time to do all that you do and to wish you and your family a BLESSED Christmas and a new year filled with joy happiness and peace and looking forward to hearing from you frequently.
Ann
Oh Ann, that's all so very sweet of you to say. Thank you! And you are so very welcome. I'm so glad to be here for you, as I know just how lonely and unsupported this path can be. But this work is so worth it and you have come so far just to be able to recognize what a toxic relationship is and how easy a pattern it is to slip back into!
You really are growing stronger every day, and one day, you will look back on all of this - all of it - and see just how far you've come, and make some sense of the whys. Know that you are never alone, today through this holiday season, and tomorrow into the New Year; love is everywhere all around you and we are all so very human, each and every one of us 🙂
LOVE your posts!!! i'm always excited to see them arrive in my inbox (sounds silly, i know)...you ALWAYS hit the mark on exactly what i NEED to hear!
merry christmas to you & your family. &, a very happy new year! look forward to more of your pearls of wisdom in 2013...
Thank you, Robin; your kind words and sentiments mean a lot to me, and I'm glad to hear so much of what I'm saying is resonating with you. That's exactly why I'm here! 🙂